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Thank you so much for your words of wisdom. I know it will be better, just I don't know how to survive until then.
I lost my love in Monday... we were together 6 years.. he loves me but can't go on anymore. Yesterday I texted him all afternoon, cried, begged... he was sad.. and full of understanding.. polite.. but strong in his decision. No more... ever.. never. And I don't know how I'm going to make it. I tried NC but I broke it.. and now I'm fighting with myself not to contact him again... that's why I'm writing here.

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Originally Posted by heart_line

thank you so much for your words of wisdom. I know it will be better, just I don't know how to survive until then.
I lost my love in Monday...we were together 6 years.. he loves me but can't go on anymore. yesterday I texted him all afternoon, cried, begged.... he was sad.. and full of understanding.. polite.. but strong in his desicion. no more...ever..never. and I don't know how I'm gonna make it. I tried NC but I broke it.. and now I'm fighting with my self not to contact him again... that's why I'm writing here.

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Post your own thread if you wish... you will receive all the encouragment and advice you need there. We are here for you.

Brilliant! I have to send this to my fiance's ex wife lol she is that way. And needs to move on... BRAVO BRAVO ENCORE lol

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Originally Posted by Serenity2009

Brilliant!! I have to send this to my fiance's ex wife lol she is that way. and needs to move on....BRAVO BRAVO ENCORE lol

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Why are you dealing in any way with your fiance's wife? This is HIS problem, not yours. I see your contact with her as the doorway to disaster.

Can't he handle whatever the situation is for himself?

I posted my break-up question today... reading your post puts a lot of things in perspective. And definitely helps for you to say all the things I am thinking... nice to know I'm not the only one!

Break ups are painful beyond belief. At about the same time my husband died a friend's husband packed up and left. She said then and she says now (and I understand) that HER loss was more painful but her husband wanted to leave her. Mine didn't. Those words have stayed with me. She knows he is out there somewhere with someone else and is still in incredible pain.

You're sure not the only one!