Ask Me Help Desk - My boyfriend wants to do a 3-some?

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Originally Posted by christine98033

Hi All, I ended up going through with the 3-way last night and believe it or not I got the thrill of my life.

When does the DVD come out?

This makes me sick to my stomach. Lol. Im sorry, but it does. Especially how big this other guy is? Oh no girl!! How long have you been with your boyfriend and why would he ever want you to do these things with another person?? I don't know you or how you are but its obvious if you posted this and you think it is quesitonable, your not into this type of thing, but can't help but wonder, what does your boyfriend think of you to have this request? Maybe its some type of comofrt that you guys both have I'm don't know but you don't sound comfortable with this. Have you ever thought that maybe your boyfriend could be gay? Or Bi? It just doesn't sounds like he respects you as you should be respected and treated if he wants this. Stick to your guns and don't do it.

And where exactly do you come into all this? What do you want to do?
Me? I would be out of there more quick than an athlete on lucozade. If my man wasn't happy with just me then there would be no future.
Is it something you want to do? If so that's fine, as long as both partners want a threesome then knock yourselves out and have a great time, but if he is pressuring you he doesn't respect you.

Meh, I don't care if this is a fake post, answering is just fun. Your boyfriend is gay, you need to lose that zero and get yourself a hero (or Hiro)

There is one last hope though, have a 3-some with another girl and see if he likes that, if not you know for sure.

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Originally Posted by Lowtax4eva

Meh, i dont care if this is a fake post, answering is just fun. Your boyfriend is gay, you need to lose that zero and get yourself a hero (or Hiro)

There is one last hope though, have a 3-some with another girl and see if he likes that, if not you know for sure.

So true.

For the last few posters, she did it already...

And I'm kind of amazed that more people don't think that this is a fake poster who is mocking the forum by seeing who replies.

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Originally Posted by christine98033

Hi All, I ended up going through with the 3-way last night and believe it or not I got the thrill of my life. I did end up going down on the wrestler for over an half an hour - he was entirely "gigantic" as I first thought. I went down on him for that long as I was afraid of him putting it in me, but he eventually did - "doggy style", as that position was a better fit. The wrestler actually was very pleasing, more so than my boyfriend. We did use protection as someone eluded to above.

Well, we never asked for the details but thanks for sharing!

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Originally Posted by chuff

Wait.....He wants a 3 way with.....ANOTHER GUY?!?!?! He is not who you think he is.

He is a bi. Doesn't he know about the "one per fantasy" rule? Dump him.

POLL QUESTION

If you didn't have the good fortune of knowing about this post and I came up to you and said that I was going to make a movie about Christine, the gigantic wrestler, and her gay boyfriend that movie would be:

A. Comedy
B. Horror
C. Drama
D. Porn

I think the obvious one is D but I'm going with A.

Remember, anything you do you have to live with. Two years from now you will hate yourself. So follow your gut feelings. Don't do it.

Originally Posted by christine98033
Hi All, I ended up going through with the 3-way last night and believe it or not I got the thrill of my life. I did end up going down on the wrestler for over an half an hour - he was entirely "gigantic" as I first thought. I went down on him for that long as I was afraid of him putting it in me, but he eventually did - "doggy style", as that position was a better fit. The wrestler actually was very pleasing, more so than my boyfriend. We did use protection as someone eluded to above.

I am so glad that it worked out for you. You got your freak on girl!

Well christine I can't believe yo went through with it and that wrestler gave it to you from BEHIND! Geez you were worried about him hurting you and you let him do it doggy!! Would have even gone in further that way!!

Its great that you went down on him for half an hour cause youwere worried!! What was your boyfrien doing for that half hour he must have been giving it to you from behind with his small one getting you ready!!

I heard the ROYAL RUMBLE is in your town next week maybe you can get involved in the six man tag team special!!

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Originally Posted by mckenzie134

I heard the ROYAL RUMBLE is in your town next week maybe you can get involved in the six man tag team special!!!!!

What would Christine's wrestling nickname be? My suggestion is "The wrestler's favorite wrestler" Christine. I can see her doing an interview right now, Christine would say, "To all you other wrestlers out there, I'm putting you all on notice that I used to be afraid of some of you because you were bigger then me, but after talking to this guy (points to her boyfriend who talking to himself deciding what pillows best match his couch) and his encouragement telling me that he knows will watch my back and the any other guys back...and front that challenges me, I'm am no longer afraid. Let it be known that all you bigger wrestlers can longer itimindate me, because as Ric Flair said, when your wrestle Christine you go all night long."

Christine next match is next week, "No Holes Barred" free admission!

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Christine next match is next week, "No Holes Barred" free admission!

I wonder if her oppenents use foreign objects?

I would chose D- Porn movie

You know what's funny? When a guy asks his girlfriend to do a 3 some with another girl its OK but when they ask to do it with another guy omg he's gay. Then why do women have to plan 3 somes with another woman to "spice up there sex life" I think if he's offering to do it with a guy tell only if he's f***ing HOT. Enjoy it how often do girls get a chance to have 2 GUYS who cares if he's gay at least you get to do 2 GUYS. Its aways woman doing stupid crap for them and what do women get out of it?? NOTHING they still treat you like crap jerk off to women on T.V. go to strip clubs and at like pigs. Women can't even go outside without gross man pigs honking there horns or yelling obscence things to them. Women are not treated the way they should be and its time to change that. F*** 2 guys and tell your girl friends how amazing it was.

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Originally Posted by SouthernBelle06

Sure some men may have fantasies about unconventional sexual situations but they don't act on them or push their partner to do something they don't want to do. If my boyfriend seriously tried to get me to participate in a threesome, not just in a passing joking fashion (which is fine) knowing I was against it, I would lose my temper, say some very choice words to him, and then dump him. I want a guy that loves me so much, he wants me for himself only and wants to give himself to me only.

You know when your boyfriend asks you to do a 3 some then says he's "joking" he's not. Hes wants to see your reaction and if he sees you getting mad he then says it's a joke.

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Originally Posted by honey2700

You know when your bf asks you to do a 3 some then says hes "joking" hes not. Hes wants to see your reaction and if he sees you getting mad he then says its a joke.

Honestly, whatever makes our female mad, we are always just joking.

Three Words... Don't Do It.

Two words... Already did.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Don't do anything you don't want to just to please someone else. Tell him to take his freaky deaky arse somewhere else.

Little late, but I believe that would be freaky deaky sex land, would be where he'd take said arse...

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

Well him that perhaps he should go down on him first and let him do him first if he wants a threesome so bad.

My only question I guess is why you are even asking, dump the jerk and find a boyfriend that will really love and respect you.

heck yes fr_chuck! Awsome couldn't say it ne better

Listen I think its about time you get another girl over and let your boyfriend go with it with her I want to here how that story goes??

"binx44 disagrees: that doesnt mean hes GAY. just because he wanted a threesome with another guy in the mix most of the time never means hes gay. 2 men and a girl can get together but the men can never touch eachother or even if they do it doesnt make'm gay *goodness*"

Notice how bonx capitalizes the letters G-A-Y. She wants to make sure that those letters stick out for some reason. She also has not a clue, as she claims that a guy that wants to view another guy sexually in the same room naked is not gay. Ahh okay. She even says that most of the time that means he's not gay. Enlightling news coming out of the rainbow capital. Well sorry to let you in on what happens in the real world but MOST (notice how I capitalize for emphisis) of the time that does mean he's gay, and he uses the girl as a cover to be around his naked guys. In fact, your probably missed this in the original post because it was in the second line, but the supposed boyfriend actually had a type of guy he wanted to see naked. Now I know you missed this because it was in the last line of the original post but this guy also wanted to do double penetration. Now speaking as a straight male, and throwing all PC BS out the window, there is no way a straight guy wants his johnson anywhere near another guys. I don't like the doctor touching it but I certainly wouldn't sit there and watch him take off his pants so we could stick them together to nail Christine at the same time.

Maybe your many gay partners are telling you otherwise but they are lying. Greatness.

My doctor is a female,HEHEHE!

I have to agree with Chuff on this. Straight men (MOST) would not want there wanker anywhere near another guys especially in a sexual manner. However, I do know straight men who are secure enough to walk around naked and not worry about who is watching (man, woman, straight, gay).

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Originally Posted by Tuscany

I have to agree with Chuff on this. Straight men (MOST) would not want there wanker anywhere near another guys especially in a sexual manner. However, I do know straight men who are secure enough to walk around naked and not worry about who is watching (man, woman, straight, gay).

I have to agree with Tuscany's agreement. I just wanted to point out though that walkng around naked is much different then a sexual situation. I'm sure gay dudes have checked out men out in a locker room including me, but not one has ever nor would they ever come up to me and grab my johnson and say "Hey let's go nail Christine together." Yeah... that would just not work. It wouldn't work in a locker room or in a bedroom unless something else is going on.

To play the devil's advocate here, I don't think that every guy in male-male-female threesome porn is gay. And I don't think you're necessarily gay if you're a guy who gets off on male-male-female threesome porn. Also, when a guy watches male-female one-on-one porn, he's watching a guy naked in a sexual situation. That doesn't make him gay. I think it depends on the focus of the threesome. If the focus for both guys is the girl, that's less "gay." If the focus for both guys is split equally between the girl and the other guy, then, yes, I'd have to agree that the guy does have gay fantasies.

For the women reading this post, evan though it is a comedy entry. I began seeing a girl, who seemed great. However it turned out during discussions that she had had a threesome with her ex boyfriend and a friend of his that she didn't know.

You can well imagine my response ! IMO this guy used her for self gratification and did not love her, funny how they were no longer together, it certainly brought them closer.

My point is, this act ended not one but two relationships for this girl ! It is now well and truly a skeleton in her closet. Any man who loves her will be disgusted by the fact that she had group sex with a man she did not know (her ex's friend). Unless he is a swinger.

I now walk past this girl in the street and I am disgusted and ashamed that I once cared for her! Is that really the relationships women seek ?

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Originally Posted by 4answers

Is that really the relationships women seek ?

I believe some women out there are really sexually adventurers but I think the rest of us would not get involved in a threesome. I think a lot of girls and guys get pressured into them by their partners. Like you said they do it to please their partners and ultimately it ends relationships.

Hmm... well, he might not be gay. Although he might be trying to discover his sexuality without cheating on you or making himself out to be gay incase he is not.
OR he might think that because he let you fool around with some other guy that he should be aloud to fool around with some other girl on his watch.
Sounds like a man thing to do.:p

You know...

I'd just like to point out that your REASONS for having a threesome have to be sound (no pressure from one partner or the other, or from the 3rd party), you have to set RULES ahead of time (again, all THREE people must be involved in the creation of the rules) and those rules must be ENFORCED.

If it is the fantasy of everyone involved, the lines are clear, all the people involved are into it... what the heck does it matter what people do in bed?

If it makes someone a whore to enjoy a sexual fantasy, then I think there are a lot more whores out there than I previously realized!

Just remember... just because YOU wouldn't do it, or wouldn't enjoy it, doesn't mean that someone ELSE out there shouldn't. As long as it's not hurting or coercing someone, then there shouldn't be a problem.

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Originally Posted by Synnen

You know...

Just remember....just because YOU wouldn't do it, or wouldn't enjoy it, doesn't mean that someone ELSE out there shouldn't. As long as it's not hurting or coercing someone, then there shouldn't be a problem.

Forgive me for being conraversial and please believe I am not judgemental.

But a guy sleeps with loads of women, he is viewed as a stud by men.. However women, strange creatures that you are look at this guy and see all these women and think, well he must have something about him or those girls would not want him! So you find him more atractive... Alph Male. (The guy who never has a girl is not atractive to you).

But If a girl sleeps with loads of guys she is veiwed as a slut by guys.. because funnily enough a guy wants a girl to want him sexually.. Call it male ego, if you will. He does not want to be with a girl who every other guy has had ! Where is the satisfaction and closeness of being with someone who wants you but no another, when every other has had her.. kind of makes it not special. Now women on the other hand, also view this girl with distane ! Call her ! Disaprove of her !

So the point being in this eqality society that does not and will never exist, because it is against our human nature, women who sleep around or do things like threesome are viewed in a negative way.

I am not saying its right, it JUST IS and will not change. It will only change when women view men who sleep around the same way as they view women who do it and the same for men.

So girls, yes it's a fantacy... But its not rocket science to know there is after effects.

There are after effects only if you allow there to be.

Frankly, any guy that was turned off by me being assertive enough to act out my fantasy is too stupid for me to date, anyway. (in MY opinion, which is the one that counts when I'm choosing who to date, not that it matters since I'm married, but you get the point).

Double standard or not, if someone were to judge me based on my sexual history, well... their loss.

I would probably break up with my boyfriend, your boyfriend sounds like he has issues.

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Originally Posted by 4answers

I now walk past this girl in the street and I am disgusted and ashamed that I once cared for her! Is that really the relationships women seek ?

I would never consider something like this - it's not my thing but what you have said is really judgemental. She is probably better off with out you and your disgust.

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Originally Posted by 4answers

I am not saying its right, it JUST IS and will not change. It will only change when women view men who sleep around the same way as they view women who do it and the same for men.

It won't change because of attitudes like yours- That can't see past themselves or just like judging others. No one is perfect and we ALL make mistakes. So she tried something new. SO WHAT!

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Originally Posted by NowWhat

I would never consider something like this - it's not my thing but what you have said is really judgemental. She is probably better off with out you and your disgust.

Like I said I am not judgemental, But it is the way people in general think, you only need to look at the replies to the initial post to see that.

It won't change because of attitudes like yours- That can't see past themselves or just like judging others. No one is perfect and we ALL make mistakes. So she tried something new. SO WHAT!!

I have not stated my attitude but I have stated attitudes in general ! Men and Women view casual sex or group sex in different ways, because of that fact there can be no equlity on this issue. Its not right, but it is so. Unfortuntly women do come of worse in this, now that's not my fault or my issue, before anyone has a go at me.

The point I was making is that because of this inequality, women must be aware that there will be negative after effects of there sexual actions, It will as it did with the girl I mentioned, destroy relationships. (Caused by lie's over this more than the acts btw).

Just would like to say that I know a girl who has been with her husband for almost 12 years.

They've had 3 threesomes that I know of.

They're still happily together, and friends with the people they asked to join them in bed.

What causes problems is when people aren't completely into it, make rules, and enforce the rules.

Plus... the attitude that you're a whore for enjoying a sexual fantasy. That makes for problems too.