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You did good emop! I do believe you are growing up!

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

I read a lot! and write!

Personally, I think it's not the lack of reading or writing, I think it's technology.

Back in the day (boy does that make me feel old) we didn't have cell phones, texting, email, Facebook, MSN, any of that. If we wanted to talk to someone, we talked to them, either on the phone or in person.

People are missing that human connection, so when they finally get a live human to be interested in them, they grab hold, often way too quickly.

That's my take on it.

Very valid points Alty

Those were the good old days Alty and you are way younger than me. When I dated the big question was do you let a guy kiss you on the first date? Now it's do I have sex on the first date and I'm not referring to you little emop!

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

Those were the good old days Alty and you are way younger than me. When I dated the big question was do you let a guy kiss you on the first date? Now it's do I have sex on the first date and I'm not referring to you little emop!

Today's generation is oversexed and it disgusts me

At my school, it's "do you put out before or after you date"

It's just gross

I wish I was exaggerating

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

Today's generation is oversexed and it disgusts me

Some of these post are unreal. It's like nobody takes time to get to know each other.

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

It's like nobody takes time to get to know each other.

I've been home from work on sick leave and have watched TV for entertainment. (I'm not a TV watcher normally.) I've also caught up on newer movies out now on DVD. I firmly believe life is imitating art (art being, in this case, TV and movies). Monkey see, monkey do. And trust me, the visual media have really pushed the envelope! The emotional and social repercussions are deafening.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Romance was so much simpler when I was your age. Why do you guys make it so complicated?

Answer = "emo"

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Originally Posted by NeedKarma

Answer = "emo"

Was that a crack at my name?

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

was that a crack at my name?

I know NK, and I'm guessing no.

You do realize, though, that your generation feeds on drama, and that's partly how that word "emo" got coined.

I've always wondered why you gave yourself that user name. It seemed to me like you were putting yourself down.

It was just a nickname I got from my x fiancé. I was always so sad all the time and have hair half over my face, so I'm called "emo" and he called me his princess. So I was his emo princess

I also listen to emotive hardcore music and wear the dark makeup and piercings and such. I also used to cut myself.

all of these started before I ever even heard the term "emo", but when I got into high school, that's what I was labeled as.

the emo redneck

Hey... We were all your age at one time in our life.I don't think anybody is trying put you down. It's hard being your age and going through things you have gone through!

I do believe little girl you are getting stronger and I hope you continue to do so! Hugs!

Awww thanks Kity.

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

Awww thanks Kity.

No thanks needed, you have given me some good advice on some very dark days.:)

I speak from the heart

I cheated

Threads merged

I cheated on my boyfriend and I don't know how to tell him. I feel horrible, I honestly do. I'm usually not the "cheating type." I know how wrong it was of me. I am ashamed. But I can't keep it from him.

What happened to:
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/2281869-post45.html
And
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/2281874-post46.html
??

I became a hypocrite

Is this with the werewolf boy? Emop, you are losing credibility by the second, you know that don't you?

I went against all of my own beliefs and morals. I feel horrible for it already. How do I tell him

What boyfriend?

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Originally Posted by J_9

Is this with the werewolf boy? Emop, you are losing credibility by the second, you know that don't you?

I have no problem calling people of inconsistencies regardless of reddies.

You are the cheating type if you cheated.

Take this from me, from my own experiences. Tell him. Tell him now and everything. Don't sugar coat things to save feelings. Just be honest and let him have time to heal. He will be angry, he may hate you and he may walk away. But you need to tell him. You need to take his reactions and deal with it. You were mature enough to cheat now face the consequences.

I thought it was a girl?

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Originally Posted by J_9

Is this with the werewolf boy? Emop, you are losing credibility by the second, you know that don't you?

Yes I realize that. And yes it was with him

You simply say "I was a horrible person and I cheated"

I thought you left him for an old girlfriend? What happened to her? Or maybe you should fill us in.

I thought he was "just a friend"??

Emop tell us what happened.
None of these relationships I have read about with you seem very secure or stable. Maybe you should take this as a sign to walk away and get to know yourself. Your talking of guys and girls and you don't seem to know what you want.

I haven't been "caught" in any stories because there's nothing to catch, I will admit I did wrong.

After my x fiancé, Cody, I began dating my x girlfriend Julia. I dumped her then a few days later a guy name Pat asked me out. I agreed. So Pat is currently my boyfriend

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Originally Posted by 88sunflower

Emop tell us what happened.
None of these relationships I have read about with you seem very secure or stable. Maybe you should take this as a sign to walk away and get to know yourself. Your talking of guys and girls and you dont seem to know what you want.

I agree with you sunflower

So now your with a guy Pat. You cheated on Pat with who?

Maybe you should take a seat on the bench and stop playing the field so much. You're like a pinball bouncing to the next warm set of arms willing to hold you.

If you can't stand on your feet alone, you will never have a successful relationship

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Originally Posted by 88sunflower

So now your with a guy Pat. You cheated on Pat with who?

My friend Nick

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

I haven't been "caught" in any stories

I beg to disagree. You've been caught using an alias to ask about a guy who told you he was a werewolf and you believed it. Sorry, Emop, we are trying to help you, but these stories are getting more ridiculous by the moment.

Is there anything else you have to tell us?

I believe this may a case of someone who relishes the attention they receive.

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Originally Posted by J_9

I beg to disagree. You've been caught using an alias to ask about a guy who told you he was a werewolf and you believed it. Sorry, Emop, we are trying to help you, but these stories are getting more ridiculous by the moment.

Is there anything else you have to tell us?

I admitted to that.

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Originally Posted by NeedKarma

I believe this may a case of someone who relishes the attention they receive.

No it isn't

E-mop, this post is going to be harsh, but honestly, I think that's what you need right now.

You mentioned in another thread that you were just grounded for not finishing a school project on time, due to too many distractions at home.

Don't you think it would be a good idea to stop playing around with boys/girls and focus on your school work?

Boyfriends come and go, but your education is going to decide your future.

Stop playing games with yourself and other people and be a responsible adult.

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Originally Posted by shazamataz

E-mop, this post is going to be harsh, but honestly, I think that's what you need right now.

You mentioned in another thread that you were just grounded for not finishing a school project on time, due to too many distractions at home.

Don't you think it would be a good idea to stop playing around with boys/girls and focus on your school work?

Boyfriends come and go, but your education is going to decide your future.

Stop playing games with yourself and other people and be a responsible adult.

You are right Shaz

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Originally Posted by shazamataz

E-mop, this post is going to be harsh, but honestly, I think that's what you need right now.

You mentioned in another thread that you were just grounded for not finishing a school project on time, due to too many distractions at home.

Don't you think it would be a good idea to stop playing around with boys/girls and focus on your school work?

Boyfriends come and go, but your education is going to decide your future.

Stop playing games with yourself and other people and be a responsible adult.

Sadly this isn't harsh enough. Stop playing the field like you are first. How can you focus on things with so many partners or whatever you call them. I have only seen you on here a short time and you already mentioned three people. I am not even in these threads much either!