Better than I thaught I would be and better than I was a year and a half ago when we broke up, but it has only been a day , I am sure it will get worse before better. It is like a weight has been lifted of off my shoulders now that I know what is going on so I'm happy about that. I'm just putting my thaghts in my work to keep my mind off it. Thanks for asking

You are welcome. It sounds like you have been expecting this, and seem prepared for it. Or you are just resigned to fate. Whatever the case, good luck, and hope you pass those lessons on to the ones who have yet to learn.

Wow... and I thought my relationship was dragging on, my God... It's been a year since the last post. Boblawblaw, I'm curious, how is your situation/relationship with this lady now? Have you moved on or have you sorted things out together?