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Originally Posted by Altenweg

You are slowly but surely becoming the boyfriend every girl fears, the stalker, the desperate pathetic guy that won't take "go away" for an answer.

You want her back but you're doing everything in your power to drive her away.

You say that you want her back in your life, that you love her so much. What about her? She has wants too, and she doesn't want you.

Back off, go to no contact. If she comes back then you can try again, if she doesn't then you'll eventually find someone else to love.

After reading all your posts I have to say, this isn't love, this is obsession and it's getting out of hand.

You need to get some help.

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I was desperately resisting the use of the word 'stalker' (because I know I can be too blunt sometimes) but you said it and now I feel sweet relief!

Yep. He's trying to steal her oxygen.

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Originally Posted by Gemini54

I was desperately resisting the use of the word 'stalker' (because I know I can be too blunt sometimes) but you said it and now I feel sweet relief!

Yep. He's trying to steal her oxygen.

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Gemini, I'm blunt to a fault. It pops in my head and out of my mouth or on the keyboard, then post, post, post. ;)

He is a stalker, in every sense of the word. It's only a matter of time before the girl realizes that the only way to get the time she's asking for is to get a restraining order.

You'll haven't been together that long for you to say you would die and do whatever it takes. You guys need some type of separation so that you all can come together and have a conversation. She's probably feeling neglected been used to you around all the time. Because you are so busy there's no time for her. So think about what are your priorities.

I like this I have come to the conclusion that. I love her a lot but I should let her live her life for now who knows she finds out that. She made a mostake. I will stay in my school and baseball work to fullfil my dreams as a person she means a lot to me but she does not think mature enough to be with me. She is right now so confused because she has lpst the love for me. I love her but she has humiliated me. I will forgive her whenever she comes back but I have to accept that she is dating another guy even if it hurts me. It showed me that. She didn't value what we had once. Thank u everyone. For supporting me. Im feeling much stronger.

Good luck with your healing from this. Stay strong and have a great life.