Let's clear the air. Yes, I stand by when I say "you sitting around waiting for her is foolish". I never said your friend bogus but I said her idea was. See the difference.
In the end it is your life and you are what you make it. So with that being said, if you feel the need to sit around and wait for her then do so. If you willing what to ignore the red flags and see her as a suitable wife then more power to you.
I know what I want and don't want in a mate. When me and my fiancé have issues we sit down and discussion them in a civil, mature matter. Nobody has temper tantrums nor runs away. And one thing for sure the "I dos" doesn't make the problems go away.