You are continuing to prolong this agony. If you want to continue posting here about how she is confusing you, then by all means go. But if you wish to post on here about how you going NC is helping you heal, then avoid this "hang out"

As a friend who doesn't care if she has a boyfriend? Are you really ready for that? This is where you have to be honest with yourself.

I know and that is what I can't really figure out. I mean like I have said we all have been friends for a really long time. We were good friends before we started dating, had a great friendship while we were dating. I can't undestand why she wants to hang out because when her and I were together she didn't hang out with ex's. I have come to terms that she is dating, and I really can't be mad because I am dating too. I finally texted her back and told her I couldn't go yesterday because I had things to do (which was true) but that I would call her to set something up later on. Not sure if I should though. She hasn't invited me anywhere in a long time and vice versa so not sure where all this came from.

I am doing a report on cheating and am looking for help. What is considered cheating on your lover? And why do you think people cheat?

Who do you think cheat in relationships more? Men or women. And why? Again its for my paper... any opinion will help