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Originally Posted by talaniman

Omigosh, stop worrying about him, his feelings, or what he thinks.

That goody two shoes, fantasy ending, ain't happening so let that go.

Grow up, and get a real life, and look forward, not backward. How many times you gonna break up with this guy, enough is enough.

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You are harsh but right talaniman, he don't care about me and your other comment earlier about how he is amusing himself with me hurt but hit home. That's all I WAS for him, a person to go too when they were lonely. I mean he asked me to sleep with him (which I didnt) when he was seeing the long distance girlfriend he even told me that they were just mates as well.

Why oh why did I fall for his lies, I guess you are blind when you are in love eh!! Time to move on me thinks

Just a quick update folks, the ex text me (on my old number) wishing me happy birthday! He also text me today saying that "he still loves me and that he has never lost that feeling from his heart!! Why does he do this folks, I'm assuming he still has a girlfriend.

He asked me if I loved him still, I haven't replied

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"he still loves me and that he has never lost that feeling from his heart!! Why does he do this folks, I'm assuming he still has a girlfriend.

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Talking nice and showing love is the way to confuse you and get his foot back I the door. He knows your weak for him.

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He asked me if I loved him still, I haven't replied

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Don't, not ever again will you put up with his BS!

How old are you? If you are able to move for a while do so. It will hurt at first, but after a month the love/pain will go away and you'll be able to meet others and move one.

-Will

No contact is the way to go in this situation. It's tough at first, so expect that, but in the end you will thank yourself.

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Originally Posted by Willrodg

How old are you? If you are able to move for a while do so. It will hurt at first, but after a month the love/pain will go away and you'll be able to meet others and move one.

-Will

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Hi, I'm 31 and unable to move away as I've a house, job etc here but if I was without commitments that would be the way to go for sure - thanks for your advice

I just don't know why he does this to me, he knows that I love him, I have just got a job (its only temp but keeps me busy) as when I was unemployed I had way too much time on my hands to think of him. He texts me saying quite explicit stuff about what he wants to do to me etc, he really knows how to make me miss him more.

Ive text him back (before I read your posts ) and told him that I love him too much to keep in contact with him and wished him all the best, the thing is I'm always doing this and yet he still texts me. Ive told him it kills me to communicate with him as it stirs up feelings but he won't stop contacting me. Im just going to have to be strong and try and forget him and my love for him. Im sure he goes to his girlfriends at night and turns his phone off as he texts me at 7pm and then again at 2am!! Probably when he is back home

The ex text me before and the text read, I love you, why can't we be together then he set another saying I'm not with her, she wants to be but I'm not up for it (coz of you).

I just did a stupid thing and went on this girls face book account and it said in a relationship with this guy!! I do feel hurt buts it also just clarified all the things I thought were true, she was going on about how he was off work this week and how they have spent the days together!!

Why does he continually lie to me? I've told him to be honest with me and tell me if he has a girlfriend but he continues to lie.

Im washing my hands off him for good, he must think I'm an idiot, he don't know that I know about his girlfriend. I could have quite easily just emailed her and told her that her boyfriend was telling me he loved me but I didn't. I just don't want the hassle and it would make me look like a jealous ex (even though she can have him as I don't want to be with a lair)

Hopefully in time his lies will out but knowing him he always seems to get through life telling one big lie after another

I'm my own worst enemy for looking at Facebook site, why do we do it when we were doing so well with NC, well I'm not feeling that bad tbh, I'm more annoyed at myself for giving a damn than anything else.

I just don't understand why people lie, he says he loves me so why can't we be together ? I think his girlfriend is a big reason why we can't be together!! It's the girlfriend I feel sorry for, she has no idea that her boyfriend is asking other girls out, hopefully in time she will see him for the liar he is RANT OVER!!