Well what more do you need to no to help me

How about you go over to his mums house and have nice romantic quiet night in?

Surprise him with some takeaway and while the kid is sleeping you can watch a nice romantic DVD. You don't need anything fancy to have a good valentines. As long as you are together enjoying each other's company it should be enough.

If you are questioning it there is definitely a problem or some issue of some sort...

I am married and have been with my husband for 10 years...
Of course at first you question things, but after a while you start to see the real true colours in the relationship..

You should just feel it..

How long you guys been toegther?

It's not that easy. You need to tell us specifics. Situations that make you think he does and others that make you think he doesn't. IN DETAIL.

We are NOT fortune tellers in here

We got together 21st November 2007

I give up!

Cause we not met each others family

It not that easy not met his family and I am a shy girl to just turn up on his door step

Everything seems so difficult!

So what... there's always time for the first time...

So do I!

Well my friends say that they can tell he loves me but he sends me three txs yesterday usually he sends over ten txs is this a sign he doesn't love me

But I am a shy girl and wonder what his family would say if they found me in bed with him

I don't think judging by the amount of text messages he sends is a sign of love.

Have you ever been in a long term relationship before??

Am I too leaniant on him friends say I am as I let him go to football instead of spending time with me

Yes but I got hurt by him cheating on me

Oh dear!
You seem to contradict yourself a lot...
If you are that shy why would you jump in bed with him at his parents house!
Enjoy a night of good food and good company and a good talk and a romantic dvd
SELF-CONTROL!

Well you see..
Now he has cheated on you before...

That's why expact2009 was asking for more details...
Instead of a 1 liner sentence

Cause I have been there before but while all his family was away

More 1 liners...

Please write everything on 1 post. Use puncuation.
And more people will help

Oh right I was in a relationship for two years then found out he was cheating became single for three years then met this one I with now I love and trust him but I scared my past will repeat itself

Weel when we first got together he was playing for football team and I didn't want him to stop playing so I let him continue and we would spend time after he finished but winter came and it got too cold and friends said I should make him spend time with me instead of going football

Well I think your friends are being unreasonable...
Let him play football and you can meet after football is over!

Yeah but before it would be difficult as my mum wouldn't let me out

We have spoken about having children together. And my family want to no when do we plan gewtting married and fed up them going on to me as we will sort that when we are ready

This is all too much too soon...

Relax and have fun together!
Children are a huge commitment and from what I gathered about your relationship and family I don't recommned this now - not all...

You are questioning love, and how to tell if he loves you and you are telling me you are ready for children..?

No but we have discussed how many we would like what we would like in the future we love each other I just scared my past will repeat itself is that odd or normal

ITS not how many children you want.
Have you discussed finances?
Money for schooling, clothing, etc...
Where would the child live as he still lives at home?

Being cheated surely can't be nice... but not all men are cheaters..
Trust and communication are vital - if those 2 are missing then its pointless..

Having kids won't suppress the feeling you having of things repeating themselves.. hope you understand my point here

Are you really 22??

No he twenty two April I twenty one November

But you live alone you said.. right? Why wouldn't your mum let you out??

Yes I do yes as he moving in with me gradually each time he comes he leaves piece of clothing behind

Yes I live alone now but when I lived home with mum she wouldn't let me out after nine in case something happened to me

So what's the problem? You live alone now

You are not getting my point. I'm sorry but I give up

And your point is?

Cause people still say I too leanient on him as some nights he doesn't come round

I think you abit too needy!
Space is good sometimes

Cause friends say I still too lienient cause some nights he doesn't come around