See! You are determined and have moxy! 2 great things..

You'll be fine... eventually ;)

You're setting yourself up for heartache checking his Facebook page. You should spend that time hanging out with friends or taking up a new hobby, meeting new people, stuff like that. If you even think about typing his name in any kind of search, back away from the computer and find something else to do. Hang in there. It's hard but you'll be OK.

You are good at torturing yourself. If you loved yourself as much, you would be fine.

It seems to me that Facebook makes it a lot easier to see what exes are up to and generally continue to obsess than it used to be.

LOL! Yeah sort of... but he is not my friend on their so I can't see what he is up to. I had to (psychotically) call my friend and have him snoop around for me.

Talinaman! I really am good at torturing myself. I do know this! Really, I do! I wish I was as strong as I used to be in my young years and not care about anything!

Grrrr

How old are you now?

32

Delete yourself off Facebook, period. There is absolutely no point in it. I have been Facebook free for the past three months now, probably the best move I made in the whole break up process. You have the power to stop the pain, so you need to take control... Facebook is step 1!

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Debdoes;1460460, LOL! Yeah sort of... but he is not my friend on their so I can't see what he is up to. I had to (psychotically) call my friend and have him snoop around for me.

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Thats so desperate.

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Talaniman! I really am good at torturing myself. I do know this! Really, I do! I wish I was as strong as I used to be in my young years and not care about anything!

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You can stop the torture by doing some things for yourself that makes you happy, so you can love yourself, and leave him alone. Its not about strength, its about loving who you are, and not needing someone to make you feel like somebody special.

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I like spoiling my men,

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So um, whatcha doin' next week? :D

Kc.. I just deleted myself off it again.

Tal... I'm trying, I will get there one day. And desperate... no s**t! I need to chill out...

Mark... haha! No plans... working everday, that's about it!

Whaaaatttt? I'm just trying to help!:D

Do you need a song to play over and over Deb? ;)

YouTube - Kim Stockwood - "You Jerk"

Thanks, I'll look it up! (your link said the videow is no longer available)

The link worked for me

Debdoes... is your username named after a certain movie?

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The link worked for me

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Works for me too! I thought there was maybe a glitch when I copied it. Hmmm?

EDIT: (for all of you guys... the song is Gender Friendly! ;) )

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Debdoes.... is your username named after a certain movie?

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Yes! It's followed by a popular city name!

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Works for me too! I thought there was maybe a glitch when I copied it. Hmmm?

EDIT: (for all of you guys...the song is Gender Freindly! ;) )

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Weird! It's working now... yesterday it was no longer available...

Deb you sound like your doing a lot better. We're all here for you!

Thank you! Today has actually been a pretty good day, wasn't too miserable and didn't have the urge to stab EVERY customer that came in... only a few!