You jumped four floors for a woman?
Oh come on..
Don't allow her to manipulate you like that. Grow up. Rejection happens A LOT during EVERYBODY'S life. You don't see us jumping out of windows do you?
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You jumped four floors for a woman?
Oh come on..
Don't allow her to manipulate you like that. Grow up. Rejection happens A LOT during EVERYBODY'S life. You don't see us jumping out of windows do you?
I don't think she's manipulating him, she's told him she's not interested, he just won't accept it.Quote:
Originally Posted by 411Help
This young man needs professional help as soon as possible.
I'm wondering what his parents said when he broke his leg. Did they ask why he jumped out of a window? Why aren't they doing anything to stop his behavior? He obviously needs help, one would think that his parents would get it for him seeing as he's doing everything possible to tell them he's in need of some therapy.
Something doesn't smell right here.
Troll!!
No one can possible be this irrational!
Thanks all, I've just found my true love... she cares for me.. omg this is a good feeling really... I love her... new girl that I love ahahhahaha...
My magic 8 ball says that this may end poorly for you... Hope I am wrong! Good luck :DQuote:
Originally Posted by DtheDevil
Am I the only one who thinks its better to go slow, and have a great time getting to know each other, and not get carried away with the intense feelings when you meet someone new??
No... personally, I enjoy the ride. The more complicated things get, the less fun they are!Quote:
Originally Posted by talaniman
Wow... she is my girlfriend now... I succeeded I got over this feeling... for so long time... hehe.. :D Now I feel how I was stupid... :D
Sweetie, don't get used to the feeling, I still don't think this is a smart move.Quote:
Originally Posted by DtheDevil
You are jumping from the frying pan into the fire, this can only end badly. You really do need therapy, I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one who thinks so. You need to learn to love yourself, otherwise, when this relationship ends, you'll be right back where you started or worse.
Please, get help, you are too hung up on love, this is obsession, it won't end well.
Good luck.
I wonder what hurts more? :confused:
Only you can figure that out.
Love is a two way street. You can love someone to distraction, that doesn't mean they have to love you back.
Love isn't everything, in fact, having read your other posts, I think that for you love is an obsession, something you feel you need in order to live. That's not healthy.
I've been with my husband for 19 years, half my life. I love him, but my life doesn't revolve around him, or our children. I like who I am, with or without him. You seem to need someone in order to feel whole, and that's a recipe for disaster.
Really, I think you need therapy, you need to learn to love yourself before you can love someone else.
But this time... it is something else... she this girl she really loves me:D... and I'm happy... :D
You're right, you sure are more experienced that I am, but when you love someone, you want to protect her, you are only thinking about her, when she doesn't like you back, you will get upset for a period... but I am type of human who would do everything for love one... it;s my character not my disorder... thnx for advice
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Originally Posted by DtheDevil
Happy for now. What happens if this relationship ends? Are you going to jump out of a building again, or worse?
I can talk until I'm blue in the face, you won't get help until you're ready, but believe me, you do need help. You are an accident waiting to happen, a stalker in the making.
I've dated guys like you, guys who claim to love me so much that they hurt themselves in order to prove it. Well, that's not something anyone wants to deal with, nor should they have to.
You need to love yourself in order to be loved, and you very obviously do not love yourself.
I wish you luck, but I have a feeling you'll be back here very soon telling us that this relationship ended, that you're upset, you love her so much, you'd do anything for her, why doesn't she love you back? After all, you jumped out a window for her, how can she deny you?
This is a scratchy record that you will play over and over again until you get help and heal your mind. I'm not a psychic, but I'm pretty sure that my prediction will come true.
I'm done, you'll do whatever you want, I can't stop it, and apparently no one else in your family is going to stop you either. I can only sit here and wait for the inevitable, and yes, it is inevitable.
I wish you well, I wish you luck, who knows, maybe this girl likes an obsessive guy, but somehow I doubt it, it will get old quick, and then you'll be alone again.
We'll be here if you need us, but be forewarned, I'll be offering the same advice that I've offered all along. Get help!
Then don't forget to love yourself, while you love others.Quote:
... but I am type of human who would do everything for love one... it;s my character not my disorder...
OK, if I didn't love myself I would have killed myself long time ago... of course I love myself... because I don't want to be ungrateful to my parents...
Thanks, but you know what, once you'll get through this... it will never happen again... as you've experienced that feeling once, it won't ever hurt you again that much, you've experienced the worst... it can't be worse, yeah if she leaves me, I will accept it, I've learned that life is this... I've learned that you can't daydream, but have to realize that the life goes on, it's true that my previous love was in vain, but I believe this current relationship will bring me more happiness than sadness. If you love someone, you can't force her, if you love her, you only wish happiness for her, as seeing her happy makes you also happy. I thank you for your advice. Yeah, I don't think I will mourn for help :)), that previous one was because I was too inexperienced... so don't worry... yeah, it seems to be impossoble, right? But I'm the guy who would do the progress really quickly...
If you truly loved yourself you wouldn't be on here asking a question like this. You are searching for love to fill a hole in you that only YOU can fulfill...Quote:
Originally Posted by DtheDevil
Omg, but... u know it's hurting, you should make some new steps to forget her...
Hi,
I am so sorry that she doesn't like you the way you wanted. :( But, you need to move on and forget about her. Who knows... a wonderful and sweet girl will take your breath away one day... maybe soon! I mean, who cares about her? You shouldn't care about her, because she hurts you a lot. I think it is better that you should not contact with her anymore. Just completely forget about her. Don't be friends with her anymore. I know for sure that one day, you will be happy again and will find a girl who will never hurts you in the way she did and will loves you a lot. If you wanted to find a girl to love, I would suggest socializing with girls in your school or any place that most teenagers hang out and be friends with them first and see how things go! Don't be so sad or upset, just SMILE! :) If you need to talk to someone, don't hesitate to leave me a message, and I'll do my best to help you! Don't forget- SMILE!! :)
I posted on this site a year ago about the story of this girl. At first, it was just an one sided love, however, I got her somehow.
And now, I don't know where she went.
Yesterday, like any other day, I woke up, went to my shop and then I went on chat. Everything was OK. Then I visited her like always and we watched a movie together. But when I went home, she wrote to me on my chat: "My mother found the test of pregnancy, I gotta go, don't write or call to this number anymore". Then when I called her, her mother had her cellphone and told me:"She has gone away, and I don't want her back". It was like 11 p.m then. I went out and tried to find her. I searched all the places we are usually spending together, but that was hopeless. Afterward, she called me from the pub near her house, but she didn't say anything. Then she hang the call up. I called back but she didn't get my call. I went immediately there but there was no one. It was for a.m. I went home and tried to sleep. But I can't when I knew that she was somewhere out there and I was thinking if it's possible for her to move somewhere far away and this thought makes me unable to sleep. Then at 7 a.m I tried to call her but her mother was there again and said she isn't at home. Then I found her sunglasses on my window. I didn't know what is the meaning of this.
I just want to see her again. I just want to feel her again. She was my 1st girlfriend. She was a soulmate, best friend, second mother and girlfriend to me.
Usually after a storm there's silence and everything will calm down. However, will this be the same?
It's been a long time since I've cried. If this continues, I won't be mentally healthy anymore.
I feel I'm just like a cub who is searching for the warmth feeling that he knew. Missing this feeling makes me feel insane inside me. I'm like an active volcano that knows that is going to to erupt, however, it doesn't know when exactly it will.
At this moment, I would be calling her like usually. It feels so different, when I'm not sure where she is, how she is doing and if she comes back.
Every second spending with her were every piece of happiness I could have.
I was so strong with her and yet, I feel so hopeless. Will she come back? If GOD exists then I want him to punish me instead and let her be. I would take that damage more easily . I still got a piece of hope. What should I do?
Talk.to.her.mom.
If you can't even do this,then your relationship was not that serious to begin with.
I did, however her mother isn't so tolerant. She's 16 and I'm 17. And do u think talk to he mom will bring her back?
Was she serious about you?
If she loves you she won't leave you forever.
I feel for you, if the same happened to me I would be a wreck.
I think some good advice would be to be calm and gather your wits about you. Don't get taken away by your emotions. Be smart.
Is she pregnant?
If so, show you've got what it takes and do what youu can. Step up to the plate, it can only prove your maturity
I agree with 57373, talk to her mum. Or try to at least. And don't be angry be assertive.
Talk on the issue and not the emotion.
Yeah, she is. But I'm the one who is responsible for this. 7six_seraph you're right. I should try to get a conversation with her. But what if she really leaves somewhere forever. She said she loves me and is thinking about my future. I'm going to study in US this September.
First, I think that by addmitting responsibility you're showing maturity, you're young and you need to prove you have that if you want a chance at getting through to her mum.
Second, if you're committed to make it work, TAKE resposibility. What are you going to do about your situation?
You have already stated the worst case senario, now what is the best case senario?
Your going to have to come up with a compromise.
Do you think that its possible its all got to do with her mum telling your girlfriend she can't have anything to do with you?
To me it sounds like your life is about to get a lot tougher, do you have what it takes to let these hardships ahead define you and not defy you?
What about your parents?
Apologizing to her mother might be helpful. In her mother's eyes, you have put her daughter in a terrible place. You had unprotected sex with her child and may have gotten her pregnant. One can hardly blame her for wanting the two of you to be far apart! So, apologize and speak with her mother... but don't hold your breath expecting permission to date her again.
Nothing like a pregnancy kit from your daughter, to freak a parent out.
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