Ask Me Help Desk

Ask Me Help Desk (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forum.php)
-   Relationships (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forumdisplay.php?f=277)
-   -   Just in case you think about breaking NC. (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/showthread.php?t=280107)

  • Nov 13, 2008, 10:40 AM
    kctiger

    I would do it on my own. I wouldn't even tell her about it. Just send it to her (if that is required) and be done with it. Time to wipe your hands clean of pain and drama... yeah, I know, I need to eat my own pills!
  • Nov 13, 2008, 10:43 AM
    LifeChangesMan
    I mean I could just submit it to the teacher and not to her and she would just know because she'd have access to the finished site where you can only see it after your project is submitted.
  • Nov 13, 2008, 10:46 AM
    kctiger

    Sounds like a plan!
  • Nov 13, 2008, 10:48 AM
    LifeChangesMan
    So just do it and send it to the teacher? She'll probably get pissed because she'll think it'll suck and she needs to get straight A's but, I shouldn't care about her feelings should I?
  • Nov 13, 2008, 10:50 AM
    Romefalls19

    Nope, do it on your own, send it in and be done with it. She didn't think about your feelings, so don't worry about hers.


    BTW, I am in the computer field ha ha
  • Nov 13, 2008, 10:52 AM
    LifeChangesMan
    Really? I'm going to devry for network and communications management, what you think? Good field? Waste of time?
  • Nov 13, 2008, 10:54 AM
    Romefalls19

    Not a waste of time, you will have to pay your dues though, as being a grunt for a bit and experience is EVERYTHING. And I got my degree in Computer Networking systems
  • Nov 13, 2008, 10:56 AM
    LifeChangesMan
    Good, I'm glad I'm making a good choice then. So there is life after love, it's crazy how it just hits you.
  • Nov 13, 2008, 11:00 AM
    Romefalls19

    Yep, I woke up one day and just thought about it and looked out my window and as cliché as it sounds, said "The sun still comes up no matter how crappy the day before was, so why can't I get up and out"
  • Nov 13, 2008, 11:04 AM
    LifeChangesMan
    Rome I'm going to start a new thread, I'm sure we can elaborate on. I'll make it called when do you know your ready.
  • Nov 13, 2008, 01:56 PM
    Kitten78
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Romefalls19 View Post
    Yea man, that would be fun to grab a beer! And she broke it off with me, said I was "too jealous and controlling" which in a way I was but she gave me reasons to be suspicious. The one person I was worried about, she told me he wasn't a threat and low and behold, that's who she is with now. The argument that started the break up text, was because I got mad she let another guy take a promise ring I gave her off her finger. Because that's not what any guy would do, get mad about that. But I did get angry for awhile, the way she ended a 2 1/2 year relationship, over text, after telling my cousin she was done with it.

    I also started working out at the gym to dwell my anger and keep my time occupied, which is why you see me preach the gym to people who first break up, and it REALLY helped and changed me inside and out and the looks my ex gives me now says it all. Not to mention the death stares she gives my fiancee.

    Trust me, 11 days is a big statement! And believe me, you will fall in love again. I did, and even got engaged in Sept. Sure me and her have little arguments, but the knowledge that I learned from this site allows me to realize that sometimes 2 people just need time to cool off, it's not always needed to be fixed right away, let the cooler heads come around and then talk about it. The endless knowledge you learn from here cannot be learned anywhere else, through other peoples mistakes comes great advice from people on this site. I will be around for a long time because I still use the advice in my current relationship.

    On the days I go to the gym I find myself dancing around my apartment later and smiling.
    Highly recommend the gym!

    I also got dumped in a text. Pathetic!
  • Nov 13, 2008, 01:57 PM
    LifeChangesMan
    Retarded, check out my story https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ke-280105.html I'm doing well though, 11 days of NC!
  • Apr 1, 2009, 10:26 PM
    none12345

    I got dumped over msn. Pathetic too.

    Anyway KC just reading your story =P. This thread is so old now lol. How's everything going now for you? Any updates? Just wondering? Is things looking up yet? =P
  • Apr 2, 2009, 05:55 AM
    kctiger
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by none12345 View Post
    I got dumped over msn. Pathetic too.

    Anyways KC just reading your story =P. This thread is so old now lol. How's everything going now for you? any updates? just wondering? is things looking up yet? =P

    Things have been going great. Just working, going to school and living life. All I can do! This thread is VERY old... I was a mess back then. Man how times have changed! :D
  • Apr 13, 2009, 10:25 AM
    kctiger

    Well, I hope everyone had a good Easter. Sad to say, my weekend was filled with a bit of tragedy. One of my friends took his own life on Friday night, leaving behind a beautiful 7 year old girl. His name is Troy, and I ask that you keep his family in your prayers. I know that you didn't know him, but he was a great guy who will be missed...

    Carry on Troy!! :cool:
  • Apr 13, 2009, 10:36 AM
    starlite1

    Hi KC,

    No Worries, you are great, we all know it! Don't beat yourself up at all, you are back to NC and you are on the mend. We are all here for you! Thank you for always being here for us, you ROCK!
  • Apr 13, 2009, 10:40 AM
    kctiger
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by starlite1 View Post
    Hi KC,

    No Worries, you are great, we all know it!! Don't beat yourself up at all, you are back to NC and you are on the mend. We are all here for you!! Thank you for always being here for us, you ROCK!!

    I appreciate your kind words, however this wasn't in regards to me. I posted it in an old thread of mine because I didn't want to start an entirely new one. I hope people don't get confused, as my post is more of an update to my life and doesn't revolve around my ex at all. Thanks again!
  • Apr 13, 2009, 11:05 AM
    starlite1

    Sorry about that, KC.

    I am so sorry to hear about your friend. He and his family are in my prayers.
  • Apr 13, 2009, 12:24 PM
    jmw0713

    I'm with you KC. I know exactly what it's like to lose a really good friend.

    A little over 4 years ago, I lost my good friend Shiloh suddenly to a drug overdose. The sad thing was, his death was totally preventable. If anyone that was there with him would have been brave enough to take him to the hospital when he lost consciousness, he would still be alive. No one did, so he ended up dying in his sleep in front of everyone who was with him.

    RIP Shiloh

    KC, the best thing for you to do, is be there as much as you can for his family and pay your respects at the services. Stay strong!

    RIP Troy

  • All times are GMT -7. The time now is 09:39 AM.