Hi Kaege
this is a tricky situation to be in,I have read the question and all the previous posts and yes they are saying basically the same thing... LEAVE HIM ALONE... I'm inclined to agree with them, at the same time I can see where your coming from.
The main problem obviously is your age, 14 is very young and your hormones will be running riot at this stage in your life, that's not to say what your feeling isn't real, I'm sure it is, I remember a similar thing at that age, only the age gap was at least 30 years, a definite no, plus they were married, a double no, trouble is it doesn't stop the way you feel, as time went by I realized that the attention and kindness that was shown to me was also shown to many other people, it was just the way this person was, I then realized that I wasn't special after all and cried for days.
This person never ever new how I'd felt about them,which allowed us to remain friends to this very day.
What bothers me about your friend ,is the fact that when he was told of your feelings for him, his reply was... how cute... which implies that this is some sort of school girl crush and a big boost to his ego.
I'm so sorry Kaege I've no wish to hurt your feelings but think about it just for a moment, if someone had said the same to you and you were interested, what's the first thing you would do... well, you'd do the same as anyone else and contact them straight away and arrange to meet or something.
This says to me that he thinks of you as a friend, some one to chat to online ,maybe share opinions or have a discussion with, someone he values as a friend whom he wouldn't want to loose should the relationship develop into something else.
If I were you Kaege I'd enjoy each others friendship, you can always say your friend was having a joke or something like that to cover what's been said, I'm sure eventually things will return to normal and you'll still be the best of friends with out the complications.
I'm not going to repeat what the previous posts have warned you about, you seem a very sensible girl and I'm sure you've taken all of the advice on board...
You are a Libra, so am I, Gemini is suppose to be a match for librans, but take note: my other half was a gemini who after 20 years of marriage I plucked up the courage to devorce for CRUELTY... so please don't go by the stars.
Your young and the world is your oyster, when the time is right some dashing young man will sweep you off your feet and spoil you for the lovely person that you obviously are, don't settle for second best...
I have tried to give you a balanced view I hope this has helped.
Takecare