It is very hard.. ur so right but we deserve so much better debbie.. dont you think?. im sooo sure you'll get through this and you will find that special someone... just be strong!. it takes time ( I hate that tho).. we need to be patient.. :)

0oh and the same thing happens to me and the phone I get emails all the time.. lol... but no, I don't think that its him.. lol...
BTW I called my phone company and asked for them to block his number.. that was so sad, but ver necessary..

Well done for blocking his number, that is something I cannot do. I think even if I was to loose my phone I would have to text him my new number. I just can't accept the fact that it is over.

But you have to... its for your own good... it hurts like hell, but right now he's not with you.. he left, and until you accept that you won't be able to move on... You have to do this.. ur strong enough to get through.. There is light at the end of the tunnel :)
There is something so much better waiting for you.. come on don't make it wait any longer...

Debbie there are so many things I wish I could say to you, but sometimes I can't put them into words... Be strong.. you will make it.. & always rmbr we'll always be here.. :D

I know I have to, its just hard it came out the blue, I know he wasn't planning it, he even booked for us to go away at xmas the very morning he dumped me.

Its just the way he has done it is why I'm finding it so hard

Thank you for your help and I'm always here to. If I can help I will xx

Hi Damaged,

How are you feeling today? I hope you are all right...

Hey,
I'm doing okay.. im not crying or anything but I just don't feel happy.. I don't know if you understand.. lol.. like if you see me, you would think I'm perfect, but inside I don't feel good... Im complicated.. lol... sorry that was too much.. lol..

How are you doing?. working?

LOL! I know EXACTLY what you mean LOL! I know I am not feeling to great myself.

Yeah, I'm at work... You?

Yeah, I'm working 2.. and seriously thank god I found this site.. bc before I would just sit here and cry, now my time is more useful... :)

You are so right!! Me too! I thank God for this site, and all of you... you are all so wonderful!!

I wish we all lived in the same area... I would put together a fun night out for all of us!! Everyone here on this site!

Yea.. that would be so cool.. getting to meet all this awesome people.. like seriously you guys are the people I wish I had in my life.. well I kind of do.. lol... awesome!

I totally agree! Everyone here is so great! Even though all of you are in my life remotley, I wish we could all meet in person and have a great big party or something!

I'm in Miami, so if you guys want to come I'm cool with it... we can go to the beach :)

Oh wow Miami, I'm stuck in rainy old England!

I was naughty a pulled a sicky today! But I'm feeling OK, not down @ all!

One day at a time! We will all get there xx

Well, id agree. Deleting text or anything is a good idea. Try little contact as possible.

It's so hot here.. wish I could be @ the beach..

Debbie I'm glad your feeling better.. & Ur right- one day at a time!!

Hi Everyone,

I would love to go the beach! I live in long Island NY, but work in NYC; the 'concrete jungle'. A beach would be great though LOL!

Hi Debbie, England must be beautiful! I hope you are having a nice day off, and having well deserved fun, despite the rain

I think that would be so cool to have a big huge party so we can all meet in person, I've thought about that a lot.. it's a bummer that everyone is so far from each other.. maybe someday it could happen you all think? Maybe find a central place..

Damaged good job on blocking his number, that takes a lot of courage!

Hope so that would be wicked, just get me away from England! Haha

What the time differene between us all?

Its 2:23 PM here in miami

Hi Plonak,

You know? I think that is a great idea for all to meet in a central place! I wonder if I should post something and get a consensous from the rest of our members..

What do you all think?

Hi Debbie

It's 2:24 pm in NY.

Only 5 hours difference, thought it would have been more. Me and my time I get all confussed!

Do it.. I would deff go any where.. lol... how exciting!

Yes, me too! I think it would be great!

Okay, I will post something in a little while!