One more thing to add, I notice you mentioning he does not care and that he took you out of his life with ease. This is soooooo not true, its just what it appears to be in your view. Example, I was chasing an ex not so long ago and I decided it would be best for me to go cold turkey on her A$$. Knowing her she thought that it meant I couldn't care less about talking to her and that if I really cared I would feel the need to speak to her. In reality I cared a great deal, I just didn't show it, I didn't call, message, wish her happy b-day, nothing over nothing. It would appear I was over her, I was not even close, I thought about her everyday, fought myself to not call, I missed her, hoped we'd get back together, but never called. To this day she still probably thinks I pay her no mind, again its not true.

What WE think and what is actually happening may be entirely different.

Is that right though? If you care, why not show it?

BMI doesn't know what he/she is talking about. He/she is applying a story with a different set of facts to your situation. Playing hard to get in the relationship is different than treating someone like garbage for 1.5 years. NOBODY who cares for you makes 1.5 years miserable. I know it is hard. But think of it like this. Their identical twin is out there and they will treat you so much better! Seriously

Yeah ignore BMI (no offence) but after 1.5 years he wouldn't have ended it so swiftly and heartlessly if he wasn't a huge... F****R pardon my french... BMI u have a different situation I get what you mean but I don't think this situation is quite the same

Actually BMI has said a lot as very few relationships end swiftly. The dumper generally has been thinking about ending it for some time, and the dumpee is in shock at the sudden turn of events, while the dumper has had plenty of time to emotionally detach from the whole situation. Many times they have already either moved on, or have another interest they are free to pursue.