Originally Posted by emopunk7
First of all I disagree with T-Man in regards to the kissing being a tradition. Man if any gf I ever have goes to a New Year Party and kisses another guy, it's cheating. I dont care what day in the world it is, if I'm her man, that is my duty. I don't agree it's a traditional thing. I can be any where, at any party, and even if every other person is kissing, I would refuse to do so. That's rediculous.
Secondly, Tyne26, you must understand that to agree seeing each other can be that she has decided that you will be the one. The deal is almost surely sealed, but just not exactly. She had the freedom to do as she pleased, as she didn't have a bf yet. Sure you both had great times and I'm sure may be why she is with you, but the other guy just got a kiss from her, while a bit after that she gave u way more than a kiss. She gave you herself and possibly even her heart. Now if she ever kisses another guy, there will be no excuses as you two now are bf and gf. Remember you two only had a few dates by then. As you both get to know each other more and have more fun, the less others will become attractive and the more she will be stuck on you where she wouldn't even think about kissing someone else. To expect that so soon would be a joke. As you both go on, feelings will deepen and then you won't ever worry about such things. You must remember to act cool and not let her know it bothered you. It's not so serious and she will think badly of you if you let her know it bothered you. Believe it. Take it as a challenge to let it slide and your relationship will be happier because of it. Please believe me. If you care about her and really want her, you must let it slide this time, especially since it hasn't been done while you were officially going out. Be cool, sweet, and charming. Make her happy. She will always choose you if you stay cool forever. Little things like these can go a thousand miles and can work miracles in a relationship. Sometimes the way women do things, are unexplainable and we can really go crazy thrying to analyze them. So be the man and move forward. Keep it going strong my friend. You can do this. You can be happy. I see nothing but good things for you!