You can and should definitely get a restraining order for such an abusive person. Call the police and give them a full report.

By the way, I'm guessing these threads are referring to the same guy?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/mental...me-438339.html

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...es-422170.html

It all starts with calling the cops, and making an official report.

And under no reason, let him back into the home. If he comes near, leave. Call the police when things happen, Next time also, don't "threaten" to call, just all,

You should have called the police the minute he left. Don't let him get away with anything... you're better than that.

Change your locks or move. Do file for a restraining order. If circumstances require it, go to a women’s abuse shelter until you find a new place to live.

DO NOT ACCEPT ABUSE. He already has you pegged as a doormat and punching bag. It's up to YOU to protect your little boy, as well as yourself.

For yourself, find out what attracted you to this type of man, so that you can avoid similar relationships in the future. Physical, mental, emotional abuse should make you run the other way.

Remember - Tender moments, gifts, or a good sense of humor never make up for abuse. Don't let yourself be bought or lulled into a false sense of security. There are a lot of decent men out there.

Yes you can get a restraining order! Do it for you and your son! Neither one of you deserve to be treated that way.. and I'm pretty sure it will only get worse if you allow it to keep going on. Get a restraining order ASAP!

Thanks everyone!