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No....i Wasnt Kidding....its Crazy...i Feel So Lonely Without Him...today I Talked To Him On The Phone And He Said That He Wasnt Coming To See Me Because The Way I Was Acting Yesterday... I Started Complainig And He Was Like Ok Well I Have To Go Take Ashower I Will Call You Back....i Wouldnt Let Him Off The Phone So He Just Hung Up 9on Me....now I Tried To Call Him Back And Text Him But Hes Not Answering...ugh....im So Freakin Mad!!

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Shaunta you sound like a 13 year old little spoiled drama queen! You can't see that? As I said before you have issues and he can't fix them for you. This is not about him, it is about you and you are going to have to fix it or you're going to be a very lonely woman. Just stop it!

I Know... He Says His Little Sister Doesn't Even Act Like Me... I Am A Drama Queen... But Im Not 13 Im 21... Ive Been Trying To Call Him (at Least 15 Times, Sending Texts Also) And Hes Not Responding... what Do I Say To Him?? Ive Apologized And Told Him Im Not Mad At Him... But He Won't Call Me Or Text Me Back... I Know This Is All My Fault... Gosh..

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HE IS MY FIRST BOYFRIEND.... IVE NEVER BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH ANYONE ELSE... I DONT WANT THINGS TO END BETWEEN US... IM TRYING VERY HARD TO NOT BE SO SELFISH ANYMORE... I KNOW WHAT IM DOING IS WRONG... I WANT TO STOP AND I TRY BUT I HAVE REALLY BAD ANGER ISSUES... :(

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Then get help and be willing to listen before you lose him.

But How Do I Get Him To Answer His Phone Or Texts Now?

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I Know... He Says His Little Sister Doesnt Even Act Like Me... I Am A Drama Queen... But Im Not 13 Im 21... Ive Been Trying To Call Him (at Least 15 Times, Sending Texts Also) And Hes Not Responding....what Do I Say To Him??? Ive Apologized And Told Him Im Not Mad At Him... But He Wont Call Me Or Text Me Back.... I Know This Is All My Fault... Gosh..

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First of all you stop calling him like that, it's not helping it's only making it worse. When he is ready to talk he'll call you. In the mean time you need to get your mind off him and think about how your actions are effecting your relationship and what you have to do to STOP IT! Bite your lip, go running, get a boxing bag and gloves and beat the h*ll out of it to help control your anger before you stick your foot in your mouth. I don't know, but you have to have some control over yourself.

What If He Doesn't Call? How Long Do I Wait For Him To Call?

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But How Do I Get Him To Answer His Phone Or Texts Now??

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Ok I'm finish with this conversation it's making me dizzy. I don't know how he's put up with you this long!

Well That's Rude... I Havebt Always Been Like This... Probably In The Last 2 Months When I Moved On My Own... He Was Doing Everything For Me And I Just Got Use To It

Well... Ive Come To Realize I Can't Have Or Make Everything Go My Way... So What Im Going To Do Is Get Some Help With My Attiutde And Selfishness... Thank You Everyone For Your Help And A Special Thanks To Stonewilder... WITH ME READING WHAT YOU HAVE SAID AND WHY YOU WOULD DO IF YOU HAD THIS ISSUE MADE ME REALIZE THAT IF I KEEP ACTING THE WAY I DO I WILL NOT HAVE HIM AT ALL... THANK YOU SO MUCH!! :)

Well I'm glad your making the right decision before you really lose him... good luck

Good on you shaunta. Time has come to stop worrying about the problem, and fix the problem.
Good luck.

Thank You Cal823