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  • Jul 3, 2007, 12:06 PM
    woh337
    Wow, you are so cool, I love them,lol
  • Jul 3, 2007, 12:09 PM
    SameOldSituation
    Yikes.
  • Jul 3, 2007, 12:10 PM
    woh337
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by SameOldSituation
    yikes.

    For shizzle:cool:
  • Jul 3, 2007, 12:22 PM
    phillysteakandcheese
    I think guys feel intimidated when they allow another person to take away their "power".

    A very attractive woman might be intimidating to a guy if he thinks she has the power to reject him, ridicule him, or somehow diminish his status.

    A man might be intimidated by a woman who is becoming emotional - especially if he doesn't know how to handle the woman or the situation.

    Anytime a guy perceives a woman as "out of his league" for whatever reason - money, status, intelligence, appearance... whatever - he is going to feel intimidated.

    I certainly felt that way when I was younger - And sometimes I still do! However -
    A "mature man" comes to understand that these things are no cause for him to feel intimidated.
  • Jul 3, 2007, 12:25 PM
    woh337
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by phillysteakandcheese
    I think guys feel intimidated when they allow another person to take away their "power".

    A very attractive woman might be intimidating to a guy if he thinks she has the power to reject him, ridicule him, or somehow diminish his status.


    I certainly felt that way when I was younger - And sometimes I still do! However -
    A "mature man" comes to understand that these things are no cause for him to feel intimidated.

    You are a real man now! How long takes a guy to get over with it?:)
  • Jul 3, 2007, 12:43 PM
    phillysteakandcheese
    How long does it take for a guy to get over being intimidated by women?

    Some guys get it early, or are simply "naturals" with women. Some men struggle with these issues through their entire life and never quite get it figured out.
  • Jul 3, 2007, 01:07 PM
    Dennis777
    You can only be intimidated if you let it happen. So once you feel good about yourself there is no reason to feel that way. In fact you can use it to make your own life much better. If its looks then you can walk around with a 10 cool, if its money then fantastic you don't have to worry about paying the bills each month. If its education then learn from them and build your own power from them.

    Face it, we are all different and that's what makes life exciting.

    Dennis777
  • Jul 3, 2007, 01:09 PM
    woh337
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Dennis777
    You can only be intimidated if you let it happen.
    Face it, we are all different and thats what makes life exciting.

    Dennis777

    Dennis, I was giving u more reputation, but it didn't let me.

    I want to say thank you! That is such a great answer!:)
  • Jul 3, 2007, 01:52 PM
    Dennis777
    Woh337

    Awwwwwwwww Shucks, I get lucky sometimes hehehe.
  • Jul 3, 2007, 01:55 PM
    zooropa1985
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Dennis777
    Woh337

    Awwwwwwwww Shucks, I get lucky sometimes hehehe.


    Whoooooo dude, I'm afraid that lucky lady is taking... by me ;)

    Lol
  • Jul 3, 2007, 03:07 PM
    Dennis777
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by zooropa1985
    whoooooo dude, im afraid that lucky lady is takin... by me ;)

    lol


    I was talking about getting lucky with the answer not her hehehe... But I guess that makes you the Lucky Guy for being with such a sweet Lady.
  • Jul 3, 2007, 03:52 PM
    woh337
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Dennis777
    I was talking about getting lucky with the answer not her hehehe... But i guess that makes you the Lucky Guy for being with such a sweet Lady
    zooropa1985 agrees: lol im not really with her, dont worry :)

    Ha~Will, u are going to get punished again! :rolleyes:
  • Jul 3, 2007, 04:08 PM
    Dennis777
    Mmmmmmmmmm Punished, sounds like fun to me... I have been a Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaad Boy hehehe
  • Jul 3, 2007, 04:43 PM
    woh337
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Dennis777
    Mmmmmmmmmm Punished, sounds like fun to me... I have been a Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaad Boy hehehe

    Sorry but I am not talking to you:D
  • Jul 3, 2007, 10:12 PM
    Dennis777
    Woh337

    WOW I guess I have been told hehehe
  • Jul 4, 2007, 09:43 AM
    zooropa1985
    Lol she's going to tie be down in a chair and eat strawberries in front of me, she's evil!!
  • Jul 6, 2007, 05:36 PM
    nicespringgirl
    What will intimidate guys? LOL, I thought I am the only one wonders about this?
    Hugs, Woh337!!
  • Jul 6, 2007, 05:45 PM
    woh337
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by zooropa1985
    lol shes gonna tie be down in a chair and eat strawberries in front of me, shes evil!!!!!

    LOL, are we doing this again? ;)
  • Jul 6, 2007, 09:41 PM
    AandZ4ever
    Guys are only intimidated by us because they know that we can do anything they can do just as good and we can do even more! HAVE KIDS haha I am only 14 and a half but o well. I haven't ever had a boyfriend and its 6 days till my 15th b-day I like the wrong people and just want my happy ending. I think guys get intimidated by smart girls.
  • Jul 6, 2007, 09:46 PM
    huno
    What the hell is going on in this thread? I am way lost...

    Well, I think this was the best post on this thread thus far:

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by phillysteakandcheese
    A very attractive woman might be intimidating to a guy if he thinks she has the power to reject him, ridicule him, or somehow diminish his status.

    I think men fear how women affect our social status. Now, you can also say that this is true:

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by phillysteakandcheese
    Anytime a guy perceives a woman as "out of his league" for whatever reason - money, status, intelligence, appearance... whatever - he is going to feel intimidated.

    Although for me, I don't care how rich, intelligent or important she is--the appearance is what sometimes gets me.

    The thing, though, is that all that advice is trumped by this golden line:

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by woh337
    fo shizzle :cool:

    That just says it all. :)
  • Jul 6, 2007, 11:43 PM
    JonLR92
    When a man is intimidated its cause he has no bollitas (balls in spanish) and when he gains some cofidence he grows a set. And he moves from there. Intimadation is all in the mind.

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