Ask Me Help Desk - When guys look at you

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Originally Posted by woh337

Dang, are you a man? ( I didn' mean to offend you). :eek: I thought u r an old woman!!

Well, it's talaniMAN, not talaniWOMAN :p

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Originally Posted by kristynn

talaniman,

We've got a problem here. Nowadays, they stare, but they never (or almost never) smile. Too shy, I guess.

See? What now? :cool::confused:

Exactly, my friend;)... they have no expressions on their faces... how do I know what they think? :confused:

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Originally Posted by woh337

Exactly, my friend;) ...they have no expressions on their faces...how do I know what they think?!:confused:

This is the reason I was saying they lose their ability to act and think rationally, but huno kind of denied it. :p

Don't know what to believe.

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Originally Posted by kristynn

This is the reason I was saying they lose their ability to act and think rationally, but huno kind of denied it. :p

Don't know what to believe.

Yea... I think we need to ask him again:confused:... where the heck he is now?:mad: Dang, :eek: I hope da girl doesn't tie him on the chair and puts eyeliner on HIS SEDUCTIVE EYES!:D :D

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Originally Posted by woh337

Yea...I think we need to ask him again:confused: ...where the heck he is now?:mad: Dang, :eek: I hope da girl doesn't tie him on the chair and puts eyeliner on HIS SEDUCTIVE EYES!:D :D

:D Poor huno!

What if he deserves it?

Actually... I am thinking... it could be fun to draw the eyeliner on his eyes... hum... how about we doing that on him when he comes back, Kristynn? ;);)

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Originally Posted by woh337

Actually...I am thinking...it could be fun to draw the eyeliner on his eyes...hum...how about we doing that on him when he comes back, Kristynn??;);)

Nahh, I wouldn't. He's too nice. :) Better save him from that girl who wants to do that to him. :p If he doesn't deserve it, of course.

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Originally Posted by kristynn

Nahh, I wouldn't. He's too nice. :) Better save him from that girl who wants to do that to him. :p If he doesn't deserve it, of course.

See? We caught ZOOOpara(whatever his name is) to answer our questions? ;) :D
Good job, high five;) :cool:

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Originally Posted by kristynn

This is the reason I was saying they lose their ability to act and think rationally, but huno kind of denied it. :p

Don't know what to believe.

a woman who believes we men actually have the capacity to act and think rationally?. I'm flattered. =) have to print this out and save it for my wife...

uh... I'm just another person piling on what mostly been said... usually staring is likely attraction of some sort. Yes, it can be otherwise... do I stare at women I don't find attractive. Not so much... I mean if you are spilling out of an fluorescent orange tube top that is four sizes too small, especially below the top, well there might be a cant-look-away-from-the-train-wreck response...

but usually if I don't find the woman attractive, there isn't wasted drool seeping from the mouth... unless she's carrying beer I s'pose. =)

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Originally Posted by kp2171

a woman who believes we men actually have the capacity to act and think rationally??... im flattered. =) have to print this out and save it for my wife...

Are you kidding?

...

Actually, when I think about it, you might be right! But, I do hope, that you guys can act and think rationally, too.

Wishful thinking, I guess. :rolleyes:

Where's huno? LOL :p

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Originally Posted by kristynn

Are you kidding?

Where's huno? LOL :p

Aw... I really really miss him:o

Oh I guess I'm not saying we can't think and act decently... maybe it just seems my wife always catches me in that one moment of stupidity every time...

You know, the who-wouldnt-want-to-build-a-trebuchet-and-see-how-far-the-bowling-ball-could-be-flung kind of stuff. Shell always show up right as I'm preparing to aim... metaphorically speaking.

I guess its why she upped my life insurance and we have an umbrella liability policy...

My grandmother used to say "men are so stupid"... when we were in the room... we're in the room nana...

OK. Rambling.

Should guys be more respectful. Sure. And I agree, if you are going to hold that gaze you might as well look her in the eyes when she sees you instead of darting away...

Guys are visual and generally stupid about it.

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Originally Posted by kristynn

talaniman,

We've got a problem here. Nowadays, they stare, but they never (or almost never) smile. Too shy, I guess.

See? What now? :cool::confused:

Ignore the ones that don't smile, they are lusting, or wishing. Either way not worth the time. Ignore the old guys that stare, because we all know what's on our mind. :eek: :) :D

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Ignore the ones that don't smile, they are lusting, or wishing.

Not one will dare to smile. :rolleyes:

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Ignore the old guys that stare, because we all know whats on our mind.

The old ones, too bad, we let them stare! What else can we do? :rolleyes::p

Look good! :rolleyes:

Lol, what on earth(details) are in your mind guys? ;)

Ah, I just read through this thread... woh337, you're too much! And yes, you may call me the sh!t. :) But remember to always include the "the."

Anyway, when this girl first asked to do it, I said no, but later I agreed... couldn't do it because my eye kept twitching. What she actually wanted was to do that thing where you girls use the pencil on the INSIDE of your eyelid! I can't believe you girls do that to yourselves!!

She said it would make my eyes look bigger... I don't know how that works but she says it has to do with my eyelashes, because they're long, and so putting that black pencil to the inside of my eyelids is supposed to make them look bigger... somehow.

I don't know... but I'm disturbed that you girls go through that... :o

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Originally Posted by huno

Ah, I just read through this thread... woh337, you're too much! And yes, you may call me the sh!t. :) But remember to always include the "the."

Anyway, when this girl first asked to do it, I said no, but later I agreed... couldn't do it because my eye kept twitching. What she actually wanted was to do that thing where you girls use the pencil on the INSIDE of your eyelid! I can't believe you girls do that to yourselves!!!

She said it would make my eyes look bigger... I don't know how that works but she says it has to do with my eyelashes, because they're long, and so putting that black pencil to the inside of my eyelids is supposed to make them look bigger... somehow.

I dunno.... but I'm disturbed that you girls go through that... :o

What do u mean by saying I am too much:mad: da sh!t?:D

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Originally Posted by woh337

what do u mean by saying I am too much:mad: da sh!t?:D

"Da" sh!t? Hmm... no, you're not quite cool enough for "da." You're "the" sh!t. Not "da" sh!t. You'll have to work a little harder if you want to be that cool. :D

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Originally Posted by huno

"Da" sh!t? Hmm... no, you're not quite cool enough for "da." You're "the" sh!t. Not "da" sh!t. You'll have to work a little harder if you want to be that cool. :D

I was saying you are da sh!t, hun;)

Oh, gotcha... hehehe...

So check your PMs, girl. :)

He's checking you out. If you are interested walk up to him and say, " Are you always this shy? You've been checking me out for a half an hour. Why haven't you bought me a drink?" Sports analogy----the ball is in his court. His response will tell you a lot.

To answer your second part, initially I think women are the most beautiful art we guys have been given. Am I thinking "naughty" thoughts? Mostly not. Am I going to hit on you? Maybe, but probably not. If I don't , should you hit on me. Please! Guys are shy too.

We a guy stares at a girl its because he has feelings for her, and he's probably to shy to make a move. This is exactly how I am, sometimes

I am glad to hear those answers, seems like we girls do need ot make a move sometimes!

Depends... I think guys are intimidated by me, and there is no way to save them! If they are shy, then they are shy. No matter how many moves U make, they stay the same!!

It sounds right too... what should I do then?
Btw, you are so beauitful!;)

A question for guys:

Why do you stare at some other girl when for instance, you're walking hand in hand with your girlfriend, or you're sitting next to her?

I'm not Miss Universe or anything similar :p, but this happens to me so often and I'm sure it happens to other girls, too. I personnally can't believe these guys! :eek: I'm aware this is not cheating and it's not as bad as cheating, but still, it's BAD.

Thank you all :)... for answering... soon.

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Originally Posted by kristynn

A question for guys:

Why do you stare at some other girl when for instance, you're walking hand in hand with your girlfriend, or you're sitting next to her?

Hahaha... yeah I've been caught doing this... and I AM committed to just one girl, but I can't help myself. I like to look. Observe. I'm voyeuristic. :cool:

It's like when you buy a nice sweater. It's good, yeah, didn't cost you much--you probably got it on sale--but it's comfortable.

But then you see another girl with a different sweater. There's nothing particularly better about it, but it's different enough that you wish you'd have gotten that one... kind of a "grass is always greener on the other side" situation.

I don't think all men are like this, but I can tell you that I am. :o

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Originally Posted by huno

Hahaha... yeah I've been caught doing this... and I AM committed to just one girl, but I can't help myself. I like to look. Observe. I'm voyeuristic. :cool:

It's like when you buy a nice sweater. It's good, yeah, didn't cost you much--you probably got it on sale--but it's comfortable.

But then you see another girl with a different sweater. There's nothing particularly better about it, but it's different enough that you wish you'd have gotten that one... kind of a "grass is always greener on the other side" situation.

I don't think all men are like this, but I can tell you that I am. :o

I have no respect for you, now! :p

But then, you must be like 99% of men :rolleyes:

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Originally Posted by kristynn

I have no respect for you, now! :p

You wanted honesty? I gave you honesty. It's pure, raw huno. :cool:

BTW is it considered cyber-stalking if I answer every question you answer? :D

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Originally Posted by huno

You wanted honesty? I gave you honesty. It's pure, raw huno. :cool:

Sure, always... :)

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Originally Posted by huno

BTW is it considered cyber-stalking if I answer every question you answer? :D

Yes! :D

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Originally Posted by kristynn

Yes!! :D

Ah, well then--I bid you good day.

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Originally Posted by kristynn

But huno--

I said good day!

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Originally Posted by woh337

I have had this question for such a long time and I don't want to be silly but I do what to know it badly.

Dear eveyone here, When guys stare/look at you without saying ANYTHING...

what would you think and what would you react?

Honest answers encouraged!;)

OF COURSE, I AM A LADY!!!

And also guys what do you think when u stare at a lady;)

Well lets its natural. Weather ugly or beautiful a man has to look. Its in the blood. Also your dressing will play a big role you know. When you wear skimpy you gon freeze my eyes on u.

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Originally Posted by mwangangs

Well lets its natural. Weather ugly or beautiful a man has to look. Its in the blood. Also ur dressing will play a big role u knw. When u wear skimpy u gon freeze my eyes on u.

Okay! What about this: Why do you stare at some other girl when for instance, you're walking hand in hand with your girlfriend, or you're sitting next to her? :)

:D Like I said u cnt control:D

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Originally Posted by mwangangs

:D Like i said u cnt control:D

I think you can if you really want to. :D

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Originally Posted by kristynn

I think you can if you really want to. :D

You can if you have too.
My wife gets a lot of looks(stares, and she s 51 going on 30) Look but better not touch. Having said that I go girl watching all the time. That's what 92 degrees in the shade is for.