Tell her and end it if she's going to date others, that's not cool in any relathship that's like saying, I just need you for a security deposite, and that's it start NC, don't act desperate and act like you need her, as long as you showed her you love her, and she knows that give her time, start NC

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Yeah, it's called expecting the truth. What ever happened to that!

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She told you the truth, she wants to date others.

OK, my ex and I are thinking about having one last night together so that we can at least end on a positive note. Then we are taking a break from each other for an indefinate period. Good idea or bad to see her this last time?

I think it's a bad idea. You do not want to end this, and when the break starts that when it's going to hit you like a ton of bricks. Then reality will set in that she out messing around with other guys and you will be thinking a lot of your so called last night together. I would not wait for her, I would do your grieving and move on and date others. Because she may never come back and you'll be left in the dust waiting for her. I don't care but when you care or love that person you don't do this to your mate. I would tell her to get lost?

Just to update everyone... We decided that we were going to meet one last time on Saturday. However, after having no contact with her for almost a week now I have come to realize some things about her. My vision is so much more clear now on how our relationships really was and how many things were really wrong with it. This time apart has been really good for me. I have so much less stress! So, I don't even want to date her now.

I am now thinking that everyone should go through this type of break after about 6 months of dating. I think that we get so lost in the relationship that we become blind to the disfunction.

I do still care for her but wasn't in-love with her like I thought I was. I'm still going to continue the no contact since every time I get contact from her it makes me stressed out all over again.

Great work there!! If any girl ever talks about dating otheres tell her no worries pack her stuff and how her the way out!!

I can't believe some people on here get told "I want to date otheres and the they try and justify the reason...

Its pretty simple she isn't that into you!

If yourve got a girl your way into would you that otheres!! hahaha Get real...