I was wondering how important is the past relationship. How detailed I should be on the past relationship. What should I be mentioning to him.
Having an abusive relationship... severe trauma etc. I don't want to remember the past.
But, how to handle this?

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Originally Posted by Raazipond

:confused: Hi guys
If I am now seeing a guy, should I tell him about my past relationship at the first or second meet? Or wait till I like him? Will that be late if I wait for long and mean I cheated on him?
If I do tell, what all should I tell him? And what should I not tell?
I really dont want to be a "messy me".
-RP

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I understand that you want to be truthful and honest with a new person that you meet. However, keeping your past private from someone you have just met is not cheating. Before I would open up completely I would get to know this new person first and then I would try and determne exactly how much he needs to know about my past history.

I agree. But one day, I should be opening up to the new guy.
I am nervous about it.