I agree with Rina_4. Try not to wait on him. Give him a call and see whatt's going on.

I'm going to cut to the chase. Sounds like he just wants you as a sex friend.

Well I can tell you ladies what he is going to say," oh there's nothing wrong at all, u're imagining things honey, it's just so crazy at work...oh btw I am like that, very bad at demonstrative my love for you in terms of text and stuff"... try and see if he says this... well if does, then lady, u will have to wait and wait and wait... some people don't change... they look for different avenues... one after another. All I can say is the guy who doesn't reciprocate, is not worth it at all...

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Originally Posted by diya

Well I can tell you ladies what he is going to say," oh there's nothing wrong at all, u're imagining things honey, it's just so crazy at work...oh btw I am like that, very bad at demonstrative my love for you in terms of text and stuff"...try and see if he says this....well if does, then lady, u will have to wait and wait and wait...some people don't change...they look for different avenues...one after another. All I can say is the guy who doesn't reciprocate, is not worth it at all...

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This is very true. Men... goodness! They like to explore many girls and they seem not to be attached to one lady for a while. This is not always true though. But for your best interest meet some new guys. :D

Rockabilly, what you're saying is true about men attraction and we women keep thinking about what went wrong... was something wrong with us or what.. just keep lurking, how sick a feeling actually... can anyone tell why they do this... ummm!

Yes, we need some advice from men I think. I don't find it fair that a guy can put someone down like they do and make the lady feel that it's Their fault, when really, it's not theirs at all.

Call him just to "see whats up" then if the vibe is off you won't look like a total fool.

OH I see where you from.
It has only been once so give him another chance. If he keeps canceling for the rest of the plans then he might really not be interesetd in.
U need to understand him, there could be a family matter. We can't speak for others.

WAIT.

You are on his mind. Give him a few more days. He might be busy.
Then, if you haven't heard, ring him to be included in an activity with a friend so less pressure if you are feeling on the spot...
Then, if all goes well, let the good times toll.
*With many longterm couples I've known the first date was the girl's idea - so when and if you call don't sweat it at all.
It's normal.

As a guy.

Call him.

Nothing I love more than when a girl makes it apparent to me that she's interested. So far it doesn't sound like he's avoiding you, unless you've heard his family thing was a load. If he blows you off again, I'd be worried, but for the time being, I would say your marching orders haven't changed. Give him a call, but don't be offended if he doesn't call you back till like 3 hours later. I'm a guy, and I can honestly say sometimes I'd rather play with my engine block than call a girl back, so don't take it personally, it's just how we're wired.

Give him a call, but if he doesn't answer, don't leave a message. Just leave it at that. Leaving a message would make you appear needy. Then just do your own thing and if he calls, GREAT... and if not, then that is his loss, but at least you won't then be sitting there wondering if you should have said something different on the voicemail you left... trust me, that thought would cross your mind.