Yelo You Got The Right Idea Too. Kill Em With Kindness They Will Be Scratching Their Heads Because God Knows They Have No Compassion Whereas They Would Say To Themselves Wow We Were Out Of Line And Mean To Her, So Thanks For The Comment :)

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What is more mature than saying we all must respect each other? And walking out of a bad situation should i have hit her back or been violent? I did the right thing

No, I'm certainly not saying you did the wrong thing in that situation. I'm saying you shouldn't have walked out on a man you've been with for 8 years just because of that girl. He is probably in a really tough situation and doesn't know how to handle it. Instead of making demands you should have talked to him about it, tell him how you feel (calmly) and listen to how he feels. Surely you can meet somewhere in the middle.. and if not then you do deserve better.

yeah they got their way they always do and did he should not allow violence in the house when i said we must all respect each other and she said she has no respect well then i m not staying there. I understand when you say she got her way but to me its game playing and i retired my games a long time ago. Besides... she showed me how jim really is... he didn't take a stand and he let me go instead of just saying u must apologize to jaxie u live in my house and that's that. :rolleyes: ket her 'win' i don't play games i keep things real. Im not a kid she is. She should have respect for a woman who helped her with everything including cooking feeding and paying her bills for her when i am poor as it is.

Hun I Didn't Just Walk Out It Was After I Asked Jim To Take Some Control And He Didn't That I Walked Out That Showed Me How He Felt About Me.

Well then it looks like you already have your mind made up. I do not know the whole story but as you post more about the situation it sounds to me like you don't really need any advice. If you feel betrayed and you don't feel like he cares enough about you to stand up for you then you are probably a lot better off without him. I wish you the best of luck.

Hey Luv Thanks For Your Input Tho I Appreciate It :)

I would also like to apologize for the comment about you not acting mature. You posted the rest of the story as I was typing my response so I wasn't aware of the whole situation. I hope things go well for you in the future.

I am still laughing about the gas station toilet seat. Have not heard that one since, well... since a long time ago. Lol.

:p thaks shy HER and his son got crabs haha either she gave then to him or she fell for the old got it from a gas station toilet hahahhahah:eek:

Shyguy and don't forget the other 2 classics the check is in the mail and its only a cold sore yup then of course it's the ol got crabs from the gas station toilet hahah

Shy look at this advice grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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In my opinion, the biggest problem is that the ADULTS aren't acting like adults in the house. He isn't standing up for himself and you could have been more mature about the situation as well. I'm not siding with the son & girlfriend, but you let them get what they wanted by running away. You and him should sit down and talk about the situation calmly... and see what happens from there. Good luck!

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What is MORE MATURE THAN SAYING WE ALL MUST RESPECT Each other? AND WALKING OUT OF A BAD SITUATION SHOULD I HAVE HIT HER BACK OR BEEN VIOLENT? I DID THE RIGHT THING

Jaxie, many of us were unaware of your other posts so all 3 were combined and I hope it helps clear a lot of confusion on our parts. Multiple posts can be very confusing as you see. Sorry, if you need further help just holler.

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Jaxie, many of us were unaware of your other posts so all 3 were combined and I hope it helps clear a lot of confusion on our parts. Multiple posts can be very confusing as you see. Sorry, if you need further help just holler.

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