Would be interesting to get her perspective on all of this, as from just what you have said, it's difficult to understand why you are still with her.

If you don't feel that the two of you can discuss problems to the satisfaction of both of you, and if you believe that she will continue to always call you names and threaten to go out on you, then you either continue with how things are, or you decide to end the relationship.

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Originally Posted by TheNameIsLee

Its hard man.. I know its wrong but its just hard.

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Life is hard. Anyone who tries to tell you otherwise is selling something. You're concentrating on her through all this. You're not even thinking of yourself. Do you want this stuff? Do you want someone who will verbally abuse you and think it is appropriate? Do you want someone who is emotionally manipulating you?

It is true that she can do whatever she wants. So can you. Where the difficulty comes in is should you do it, not whether you can do it. I can grab a AK-47, walk into a mall and lay waste to an entire generation just because I wan to. Should I do it? No. Will I do it? Never. There is boundaries and expectations in every relationship. Respect is a huge one and it is missing here. Have a little self-respect and walk away here.