Well, the horse has already gone through the gate so there is no use in reprimanding you about having an affair with an insubordinate. Once the male and female emotions come into play, insubordination takes a back seat. Looks like this girl has something special if two men are doting after her. Where do I start? If this person is affecting your job performance, then that is no good. If you continue to see her while she is seeing her boyfriend, that is no good either. How do you forget her when you see her probably everyday. I think you have to take the bull by the horns to try to resolve this. In every relationship there has to be some type of closure in order to move on. What would you need to do to put a closure to this? That is the question. You could take the professional approach and hide your feelings which would still be eating you alive. I think you should have a heart to hear talk with her and once and for all either END it or continue from where you left off if she will allow you. Does the boyfriend know about you? Just curious.
