Thank you very much everyone, having to read all your opinions and look at myself and the things I do from a different perspective has definitely helped me a lot! As it is now, we are having a fresh start and taking things slow, because I don't want to rush into it and fall back to my old behaviour. My boyfriend wants to go to counselling with me, he has admitted that his own past experiences have affected him badly and that the break up wasn't just all my fault, he is just as responsible and hasn't always treated me the way he should. We are working on this new relationship together, and I am continuing to work on my own issues. So big thanks for your support and advice, it really helped me to go through this!

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Originally Posted by Nikki577313

I really need some opinions about this.. I am so confused right now I just don't know if this is hopeless.. We met up after work today, he seemed happy to see me, we spoke about how we've been all this time apart, I told him about my counselling and he said he is very pleased and didn't expect me to go back to it. We spoke about what's going on between us and basically he said that he can't promise me anything, he doesn't know how he feels or what he wants right now,that I have to prove myself to him and his family, because they are very unsure about me.. I told him how much he means to me, and that I am working on myself because I want this relationship to work and I don't want to lose him.. He started crying, said that this conversation is making him agitated and that he will talk to me at some point later and left... Is there still any chance to work this out or is it really over?

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Really?!