Okay, learn some respect for our VOLUNTEERS, and then answer.

Homegirl is a long time member. Don't diseregard Her comments.

No one can say what u want us to.

Should you do this or that. We don't know you or he so how can you ask that??

Looks to me like you want some magical answer here and anything that doesn't do that for you will be met with harsh criticism from you. You want answers, you need to be more clear in what you have said. To get mad at someone because they couldn't read your mind or weren't aware of something that you didn't bother to say is just ridiculous. You want help but you sure aren't making it easy to give you help.