Ask Me Help Desk - 8 months pregnant live in boyfriend broke up with me

I think it depends on what state you live in.

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Originally Posted by Adrien29

Prior to all of this drama I was helping him pay half his bills but then when all of this took place he said I didn't have to pay anything anymore

Start to save that money and be prepared to leave after the baby is born. The longer you stay the more the drama.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

I think it depends on what state you live in.

Start to save that money and be prepared to leave after the baby is born. The longer you stay the more the drama.

what type of drama could happen? What are you thinking could possibly happen

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Originally Posted by Adrien29

what type of drama could happen? What are you thinking could possibly happen

I live in Louisiana

Very sorry for your situation. My best friend faced similar situation. He was cheating on his wife
( my best friend), to sleep with a 15 year old younger woman, because my friend stop sleeping with him and demanded a divorced for last 3 years. He bought house under his another mistress,whom he told the young one, that, was his wife, and told about my friend that it was his sister/ brother's wife. He introduce his mistresses husband to the young woman that it is his cousin. Etc, by the way, my friends gotten finally gotten an attorney licensed in California, and DMV, specialized in banking. He found out some how, and to protect his mistresses from Banking Fraud( he use my friend ssn, without her consent , and her maiden name). He use a FAKE SSN for everyone else, now my friends gotten straighten it over with SSN. He was from California, used simultaneously id from MD,CA,VA,PA,and DC. Smart guy !

Anyway, Made sure you got the CHILD SUPPORT/ AT LEAST REPORT HIM.
Don't feel bad about yourself. He will come and beg you, be a WOMAN. Do not let him enter your life, ever again, What if he died, you would rise this child your won right? Put your name as single Parent. Child can suit him when he/she grows up too !

Good luck..

You will get angry because he is not doing as you would like, he could be upset with you because you are putting a cramp in his style.
You two are no longer a couple. Why would you want to continue to stay there. Do you think/hope he will change his mind?

You can check this website http://singleparents.about.com/od/st.../louisiana.htm

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

You will get angry because he is not doing as you would like, he could be upset with you because you are putting a cramp in his style.
You two are no longer a couple. Why would you want to continue to stay there. Do you think/hope he will change his mind?

You can check this website How to Apply for Child Support in Louisiana

No I don't think that he will change his mind where else am I supposed to go I don't hate him at all I'm waiting until after I have my baby girl and go back to work and I am fiancially ready in June I wanted to leave him he begged me to stay I had an apartment ready for me to move into now I owe them for backing out of my lease so I'm leaving when I can fiancially do so

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Originally Posted by WHYNTT42

Very sorry for your situation. My best friend faced similar situation. He was cheating on his wife
( my best friend), to sleep with a 15 year old younger woman, because my friend stop sleeping with him and demanded a divorced for last 3 years. He bought house under his another mistress,whom he told the young one, that, was his wife, and told about my friend that it was his sister/ brother's wife. He introduce his mistresses husband to the young woman that it is his cousin. Etc, by the way, my friends gotten finally gotten an attorney licensed in California, and DMV, specialized in banking. He found out some how, and to protect his mistresses from Banking Fraud( he use my friend ssn, without her consent , and her maiden name). He use a FAKE SSN for everyone else, now my friends gotten straighten it over with SSN. He was from California, used simultaneously id from MD,CA,VA,PA,and DC. Smart guy !

Anyway, Made sure you got the CHILD SUPPORT/ AT LEAST REPORT HIM.
Don't feel bad about yourself. He will come and beg you, be a WOMAN. Do not let him enter your life, ever again, What if he died, you would rise this child your won right? Put your name as single Parent. Child can suit him when he/she grows up too !

Good luck..

I don't feel bad about myself at all I'm not afraid to raise my child on my own at all my baby girl is due I. 2 weeks and I am going to leave when I'm fiancially ready to after I have the baby and go back to work

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Originally Posted by WHYNTT42

Very sorry for your situation. My best friend faced similar situation.

Child can suit him when he/she grows up too !

How is that a similar situation? I don't see much of a similarity if any.

Also what do you think the child can sue for when an adult?

YES, children can sue their parents for unpaid child support, at any time, even when they became adult. His retirement will go to the child.

It is very similar situation, because my friend lived in Fairfax, Virginia until Sep2011. When this man purchase property she was not where near Maryland. He lived with her in an apartment 3 blocks away from his mistress, in Frederick, MD. He works at night, visit regularly the OTHER WOMAN. He told the OTHER WOMAN that, she was his brother's wife, mother of two, or had a children from previous relationship. And gave his keys to the mistress. He introduced the mistress and her husband that, it was his cousin.. lots of drama. She is our client, so can't say much. The man is very smart to full authority from Fairfax to Frederick. Banks as BOA, CITY, AMEX, WELLS FARGO. IT has become now a multi million dollar spousal-dispute suit. He has use her identity without her consent, under multiple different names.

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Originally Posted by WHYNTT42

YES, children can sue their parents for unpaid child support, at any time, even when they became adult. His retirement will go to the child.

It is very similar situation, because my friend lived in Fairfax, Virginia until Sep2011. When this man purchase property she was not where near Maryland. He lived with her in an apartment 3 blocks away from his mistress, in Frederick, MD. He works at night, visit regularly the OTHER WOMAN. He told the OTHER WOMAN that, she was his brother's wife, mother of two, or had a children from previous relationship. And gave his keys to the mistress. He introduced the mistress and her husband that, it was his cousin.. lots of drama. She is our client, so can't say much. The man is very smart to full authority from Fairfax to Frederick. Banks as BOA, CITY, AMEX, WELLS FARGO. IT has become now a multi million dollar spousal-dispute suit. He has use her identity without her consent, under multiple different names.

First please cite any law or precedent that allows an adult child to sue for support. As far as I'm aware, child support is paid to a custodial parent for the raising of the child. Therefore it is the responsibility of the custodial parent to obtain support.

And again, I see No similarity. The OP's situation is simply that her boyfriend wants her to move out of his home. There is no instance of mistresses other woman or anything like that cited here. Since the boyfriend owns the property he is entitled to evict any resident as long as he follows the eviction laws.

Being pregnant has nothing to do with the relationship. If it is over and it isn't your house, then you need to find a new place to live. If your boyfriend cools down and then is willing to talk, you are going to have to do something about your issue (the insecurity that is making you accuse him of doing acts he isn't actually doing.)