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  • Nov 5, 2013, 07:17 AM
    sweetdarling89
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Delete him and don't contact him. He has moved on and so should you.
    Next time don't put your all into someone after only 2 months. This is a learning about each other time.

    I keep thinking to myself, what if he regrets it and troes to ament things but it would be too late as I would have deleted him which would make matters worse!
    I tried a lot to fix things between us, I just don't want to look back and wish I did anything more. As stupid as that sounds :(
  • Nov 5, 2013, 07:32 AM
    Homegirl 50
    If this guy wanted to reach you he would find a way. He has not contacted you even after you texted him. Let it go. Would have, should have, could have, is siily. You tried it didn' work. Leave it alone and move on. How much more time are you willing to waste in a guy who walked away from you and you only dated 2months?
  • Nov 5, 2013, 07:34 AM
    talaniman
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    I am now hurt because I feel as though I have invested my emotions and time into someone who is not much into me nor does he like me as he told me.
    You are NOT a priority in his life, as you have made him in yours.

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by sweetdarling89 View Post
    I keep thinking to myself, what if he regrets it and troes to ament things but it would be too late as I would have deleted him which would make matters worse!
    I tried a lot to fix things between us, I just don't want to look back and wish I did anything more. As stupid as that sounds :(

    Live your own life without him, and enjoy it, no telling what will happen in the future, but its not very emotionally healthy to force something another doesn't seem to want, or holding on to false hope that another will have a change of heart, no matter how bad you want them too.

    Let go of this and heal from the disappointment, and rejection, and keep your dignity and self respect.
  • Nov 5, 2013, 07:48 AM
    sweetdarling89
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    You are NOT a priority in his life, as you have made him in yours.



    Live your own life without him, and enjoy it, no telling what will happen in the future, but its not very emotionally healthy to force something another doesn't seem to want, or holding on to false hope that another will have a change of heart, no matter how bad you want them too.

    Let go of this and heal from the disappointment, and rejection, and keep your dignity and self respect.

    Thank you.
    So is better instead of deleting him to just avoid his page on Facebook? Rather than having that negativity that comes with deleting him?
    What do you think is the right thing to do
  • Nov 5, 2013, 07:56 AM
    talaniman
    I would delete him and stop playing with my will power or emotions. Why sabotage your own well being chasing and hoping for a guy that's living life just great without you?

    Shouldn't you be living great without him? Start today and heal, so you too can pursue your own happiness. Sometimes to get beyond bad situations, you have to completely give up on them.
  • Nov 5, 2013, 08:17 AM
    sweetdarling89
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    I would delete him and stop playing with my will power or emotions. Why sabotage your own well being chasing and hoping for a guy that's living life just great without you?

    Shouldn't you be living great without him? Start today and heal, so you too can pursue your own happiness. Sometimes to get beyond bad situations, you have to completely give up on them.

    Im just so scared of regretting it!
  • Nov 5, 2013, 08:57 AM
    talaniman
    Get over your FEAR!
  • Nov 10, 2013, 02:41 PM
    sweetdarling89
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Get over your FEAR!

    I did just delete him. I feel horrible for some reason :(
  • Nov 10, 2013, 03:14 PM
    Homegirl 50
    You'll get over it. Time to move on
  • Nov 11, 2013, 10:52 AM
    sweetdarling89
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    You'll get over it. Time to move on

    I've actually just found out that he readded his ex-whom had feelings for him and he always assured me he doesn't feel the same about her- on Facebook
    So now, I feel actually much worse :(
  • Nov 11, 2013, 11:00 AM
    Homegirl 50
    Well at least you know where you stand. Now get on with your life.

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