Ask Me Help Desk - Abortion??

Point being be aware if you do go there.

It's like anything else in the world, some are better than others as some people are better than others. The point is you choose what's best for YOU. The sooner you checkout your options the better.

Your mom, or best friend are probably good sounding boards for your concerns, and the best source of support. I hope they are active in your life.

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Originally Posted by N0help4u

I'd say you could start by telling him you are pregnant and considering abortion. but he would probably just string you along with hopes while still wanting the other girl.

I decided to tell him, but he already knew

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Go to planned parenthood as soon a possible just to get the process of making an informed decision as quickly as possible, and as you are the main one affected by whatever decision you make, who you tell, or when, is also YOUR decision.

Trying to please him is what got you where you are now, so be wise in what you do for YOURSELF, NOT others. I applaud you for recognizing that you would be a second baby mama, and his need for sex got another pregnant before YOU. His need for sex over ruled any caring for the consequences he will face, and both female.

That's why I think this is YOUR exclusive decision, because he has already proven what's best for you is NOT a high priority. You don't want to be tied to this fellow with no choices or option that work for YOU in the future.

Good luck.

I got in contact with Chris, and told him I was pregnant. When I told him, he started laughing and told me "I Know." I was so mad I hung the phone up on him. I shouldn't believe he got me pregnant on purpose. I have an appointment with planned parenthood on Monday, time for this nightmare to be over.

Good you are back.

What was his reaction, and are you any closer to making a decision?

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Originally Posted by talaniman

It's like anything else in the world, some are better than others as some people are better than others. The point is you choose what's best for YOU. The sooner you checkout your options the better.

Your mom, or best friend are probably good sounding boards for your concerns, and the best source of support. I hope they are active in your life.

I decided to do what's best for me, but no one wants me to get an abortion

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Originally Posted by onlyoneme974

I decided to do what's best for me, but no one wants me to get an abortion

No one else has a right to make this decision for you, so who cares what everyone else wants?

If you've decided to abort, that's your choice. It's your body! You are the only one that has a right to choose. Others can offer their opinion, but they're not the ones that have to carry the child, or support it once it's born. You are. So it's your choice.

If you need support, there are many of us on this site that will be here for you. But you do have to make the decision soon. Most clinics won't abort after the 12th week.