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  • Aug 9, 2013, 11:16 PM
    J_9
    You do nothing. You go on with your life and leave her to go on with hers. Leave her alone before you become a stalker.
  • Aug 9, 2013, 11:20 PM
    Nasri1996
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    You do nothing. You go on with your life and leave her to go on with hers. Leave her alone before you become a stalker.

    I won't because maybe I will never be loved again ,I'm just ugly , weak , no selfconfident , Shy . That's why I won't lose her
  • Aug 9, 2013, 11:22 PM
    J_9
    Then you will become her stalker and make her hate you. Is that what you want?
  • Aug 9, 2013, 11:24 PM
    Nasri1996
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    Then you will become her stalker and make her hate you. Is that what you want?

    No sure :( ,so I will be forever alone like before
  • Aug 9, 2013, 11:26 PM
    J_9
    You are only 17 years old! You have many years ahead of you to meet women.

    You are coming off as needy and desperate. No girl wants to be with a guy like that.
  • Aug 9, 2013, 11:31 PM
    Nasri1996
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    You are only 17 years old! You have many years ahead of you to meet women.

    You are coming off as needy and desperate. No girl wants to be with a guy like that.

    I don't care anymore , god made me like that and it's hard to change it , so I will just study and watch p**n on my mobile like always :( but sometimes I just need to some love :'(
  • Aug 10, 2013, 07:29 AM
    Wondergirl
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    Originally Posted by Nasri1996 View Post
    I don't care anymore , god made me like that

    No, He didn't!! It's something that was happening while you were growing up.

    Why are you so desperate to find love? Why so needy? How many children are in your family, and where are you in that lineup?
  • Aug 10, 2013, 07:34 AM
    Nasri1996
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    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    No, He didn't!!!!!! It's something that was happening while you were growing up.

    Why are you so desperate to find love? why so needy? How many children are in your family, and where are you in that lineup?

    Cuz I'm always stay alone , idon't go out and I hate my family members so I'm always on my room now I have 71 days in my room . We r 4 children and I'l the last one .
  • Aug 10, 2013, 07:37 AM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Nasri1996 View Post
    Cuz i'm always stay alone , idon't go out and i hate my family members so i'm always on my room now i have 71 days in my room . We r 4 children and i'l the last one .

    Why do you stay alone? Why do you hate your family?

    Don't you go to school? Or work? How do you eat?

    Usually the last child is the one the parents spoil.
  • Aug 10, 2013, 07:42 AM
    Nasri1996
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Why do you stay alone? Why do you hate your family?

    Don't you go to school? or work? How do you eat?

    Usually the last child is the one the parents spoil.

    Yes I want to be alone always , I only hate them I don't know why !
    We r in summer now so we don't have school , I don't eat too much only 1 time par day , No I'm not spoiled my big bro is spoil not me :(
  • Aug 10, 2013, 07:47 AM
    N0help4u
    You are defeating your own self. Girls do not like needy desperate guys that sulk. Your actions are pushing her away and you refuse to see it
  • Aug 10, 2013, 07:53 AM
    Nasri1996
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    You are defeating your own self. Girls do not like needy desperate guys that sulk. Your actions are pushing her away and you refuse to see it

    Yeaah I know , but as I say it's hard to fix that , because I'm always alone , and you don't know how I'm living and how I feel in every single moment .
  • Aug 10, 2013, 08:53 AM
    N0help4u
    I don't know how you live but instead of dwelling hope bad things are take that time in your room to work on your character. Study self help things, hobbies, things you enjoy. Skip the p*0n! You know you can take non credit college courses for free on the Internet.
  • Aug 10, 2013, 09:01 AM
    Nasri1996
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    I dont know how you live but instead of dwelling hope bad things are take that time in your room to work on your character. Study self help things, hobbies, things you enjoy. Skip the p*0n! You know you can take non credit college courses for free on the Internet.

    The things that I enjoy is video games , but now I don't have a good graphic PC so I can't play and my father won't to buy a new one for me :/ u see I'm just unlucky
  • Aug 10, 2013, 09:09 AM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Nasri1996 View Post
    The things that i enjoy is video games , but now i don't have a good graphic pc so i can't play and my father won't to buy a new one for me :/ u see i'm just unlucky

    Unlucky has nothing to do with it.

    How old are you?

    Maybe if you took an active part in your family life instead of hiding in your room all the time, your father would be more generous.
  • Aug 10, 2013, 09:16 AM
    Nasri1996
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    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Unlucky has nothing to do with it.

    How old are you?

    Maybe if you took an active part in your family life instead of hiding in your room all the time, your father would be more generous.

    I'm only 17 yrs old , I won't because the things they are talking about when they are together make me more nervous , I feel like they are all from the middle ages , my mom want to choose the girl who I will marry in the future... So I decide just to study in europe countrys in the next years and get girl from there if I find a girl likes me and accept me I will start changing myself for her from now
  • Aug 10, 2013, 09:23 AM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Nasri1996 View Post
    the things they r talkin about when they r together make me more nervous , i feel like they r all from the middle ages

    What do YOU want to talk about?

    What country are you in? Are you Hindu or Muslim in that your parents want to choose your wife for you?

    If you live in your room, it doesn't seem like you will be going very far in life. You are your own worst enemy.

    Are your grades in school good enough to be accepted at a university?
  • Aug 10, 2013, 11:10 AM
    N0help4u
    Video games are a waste. You need to work on yourself image. You can stay in your room and pout or you can get up and fix you. You want to go to college, why don't you take some of the free internet courses so you are ready once you get there?
    You are worried about never getting a girl but you know in your heart you will find one later. Concentrate on yourself for now.
    Porn is not for you either. So many girls cry that their boyfriends are so addicted to porn that they totally ignore them.
  • Aug 10, 2013, 08:51 PM
    Nasri1996
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    What do YOU want to talk about?

    What country are you in? Are you Hindu or Muslim in that your parents want to choose your wife for you?

    If you live in your room, it doesn't seem like you will be going very far in life. You are your own worst enemy.

    Are your grades in school good enough to be accepted at a university?

    I'm from Tunisia , Muslim I don't know what matter with them , they just want to control every thing about me , so I stop doing everythings, yeah I know but there is many reason for me to stay in my room always.
    Yeah I'm good at school and I can do better in school just to go study in europe
  • Aug 10, 2013, 08:55 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Nasri1996 View Post
    Yeah i'm good at school and i can do better in school just to go study in europe

    Do you have savings enough for tuition and housing?

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