Sorry guy, I don't do the personal one on one off line. Feel free to express yourself here. As for your girl looking for better, used or not that's her choice. Its not about you being a family my friend, its about YOU doing the right thing to help raise your daughter.
And put yourself on a successful path. Nothing changes until you do. My advice to your girl wasn't to jump from guy to guy, but not to let you drag her down.