Bottom line: he wants you to trust him about something no one in their right mind would trust.
It's a relationship with no hope. You will NEVER be happy. You will ALWAYS wonder.
He doesn't CARE enough about you to change his situation.
He expects you to shut up and wait.
I would have been GONE long ago.
You are hanging on and hanging on to nothing with any promise of a good life.

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Originally Posted by joypulv

Bottom line: he wants you to trust him about something no one in their right mind would trust.
It's a relationship with no hope. You will NEVER be happy. You will ALWAYS wonder.
He doesn't CARE enough about you to change his situation.
He expects you to shut up and wait.
I would have been GONE long ago.
You are hanging on and hanging on to nothing with any promise of a good life.

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I don't get it why he calls my relatives and asks how I am. And that he reassures them it would be only 1 month space for us.

What a way to keep you on a string, and keep close tab on you, while he can stay on your mind, and it works perfectly. He doesn't have to argue with you, or put up with your nagging crap. While you sit and wonder, hope, and pray and get the full brunt of the blame for this fiasco.

He has made not one concession to your concerns and enjoys his playboy brothers female companions. And you are on punishment for a month. Is that not pathetic?

THANK you talanamian

Wow. Thanks for this enlightenment

This would startle the wits out of me - why is he discussing your personal life with your family?

"I don't get it why he calls my relatives and asks how I am. And that he reassures them it would be only 1 month space for us."

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This would startle the wits out of me - why is he discussing your personal life with your family?

"I don't get it why he calls my relatives and asks how I am. And that he reassures them it would be only 1 month space for us."

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He really is close to my family. When we fight sometimes he really asks help to my family.

"He really is close to my family. When we fight sometimes he really asks help to my family."

And you are all right with this?

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He really is close to my family. When we fight sometimes he really asks help to my family.

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And of course they are okay with the charming helpful business man punishing their SPOILED daughter?

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And of course they are okay with the charming helpful business man punishing their SPOILED daughter?

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Excuse me for that, he just consult sometimes, okay? And he just treats my family as his own but my family don't really meddle with us, nor they tolerate us. They let us decide on our own.

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Excuse me for that, he just consult sometimes, okay? And he just treats my family as his own but my family don't really meddle with us, nor they tolerate us. They let us decide on our own.

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Taliman what do you mean helpful? Haha. You might think my family is being benefitted? Not a single cent. They are even disproving of the relationship.

"Excuse me for that, he just consult sometimes, okay? And he just treats my family as his own but my family don't really meddle with us, nor they tolerate us. They let us decide on our own."

Let's see, he consults with them but they don't express an opinion and if they did he wouldn't listen to them and they don't interfere.

He could talk to strangers, and it would make more sense.

I am not sure you are reading what you are posting.

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"Excuse me for that, he just consult sometimes, okay? And he just treats my family as his own but my family don't really meddle with us, nor they tolerate us. They let us decide on our own."

Let's see, he consults with them but they don't express an opinion and if they did he wouldn't listen to them and they don't interfere.

He could talk to strangers, and it would make more sense.

I am not sure you are reading what you are posting.

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It's beyond my control to whomever he wants to ask opinion

"It's beyond my control to whomever he wants to ask opinion"

You don't see that he's playing you, including playing you with your own family?

You are on one month punishment, apparently with your family's knowledge and approval. If you do something he doesn't want you to do/approve of it's extended for another month.

I read something today that John Wayne said - "Life is hard. It's harder when you're stupid." Stupid means unthinking, not a lack of intellilgence.

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My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for 9 months now,

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So I take it all this is phone drama?

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So I take it all this is phone drama?

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I don't know to you.

Even my own family told me to move on already.

"I don't know to you."

What?

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"I don't know to you."

What?

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Translation: "I don't know. Do you?"

Oh, so it's "Tal's" turn to answer -

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I don't know to you.

Even my own family told me to move on already.

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If you don't know if this long distant thing you are doing for 9 months is just on line, over the phone, or mostly text, then nobody does and you should forget it.

Your family is right. You seem to be carried away by a fellow who isn't even there.

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Oh, so it's "Tal's" turn to answer -

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End of turn... for the moment. :)