Maybe nicotine gum would help when you are near them, and also help you to quit.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

They are just getting started as are you. Be cool anything sets off these youngsters who know everything now.

Yes our job is too spoil my grand kids, and yes I spoiled my kids too. So what sue me!

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Wow, I love the way you state it, it is pretty simple isn't it. Be patient, listen and let them figure it out.
Just got home from dinner with daughter and knew she wanted to talk. She wants be to listen when we have a pow wow, probably this Saturday. My concern was I wanted her to mediate she agreed but said it would be hard because she loves us both. I was right that he is worried that I will have a big influence on the baby and he suggesting a nanny instead. I told her that what ever they decide but I will not take care of my grandchild when she goes back to work if he is not 100% wanting me to. I think she was surprised. I also stated that I was the best person to take care of my grandbaby not a stranger.And the 1st couple of years are very important.
She also stated that he sees me spoiling my dog and him not minding and I think he is cute. He is concerned I am not going to raise him right and I am too nice. I doesn't like it and it makes him feel uncomfortable like I am trying to hard for him to like me. I don't know I quess I will just let time work it all out like you suggested .

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Originally Posted by smearcase

Maybe nicotine gum would help when you are near them, and also help you to quit.

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You're right thanks.