Ask Me Help Desk - I am madly in love with a straight guy

srry for late response like 3 years teehee I'm 15 same for lonexact problem because my age you may not value what I have to say but I've felt like that towards my str8 love too so :) yeah you have to tell him your gay have to how else are you going to find out? Some guys can be "turned" gay but that is extremely rare I've experimented with it on a lot of guys it has only worked on 1 but he is still straight he is just a little bi curious right now. I wrecked my chances of being friends with him and id rather be with him as a friend and wank it never get married to anyone but be biffles with him then have what has happened happen. If you really feel like you say and you want to risk your sanity and your heart on it try to get close to him as close as you can taking years and years to do it but be yourself and then let out some clues your gay like a gay porn browser make sure they look as girly as possible so its less disgusting to him and make him think about it you can't force someone to be gay but if they are atall bi or gay they would have to think about it and see if he turns or not. If he does you'll be happy forever flowers and or if it doesn't you'll end up with a broken heart and a destroyed mine like me he said he loved me I took a risk and got screwed this situation is high risk don't take it lightly we all need to take risks but can you take it if you fail I can barely I am still trying to get him and it isn't working at all. You need an answer

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Originally Posted by sangrampp

Hi all,
let me start by introducing myself. I am 26 years old guy. I am gay and never been with a guy. I didn't like anyone that much to be with.
but for the past 4 years i am in love with my friend. he is the straightest guy i have seen - he is handsome, masculine and sexy.
It is not about the thrill of having a straight man; i have had none ( straight or gay guys ) so i don't know which one is more thrilling. Its just that i am madly in love with him - i have constant goose-bumps when i am with him.
this is not a crush and i know that i will not "get over him". What do i do??
is there any way that i can get him??
please help - i feel like dying without him.
Thanx in advance.

Let me start by saying that I have been in Love with a straight guy before. To make it worse, I'm in the military and you know that goes. Sucks having to hide everything, but the that's life and I made my choice of what's more important. For your situation, I wouldn't just flat out tell the guy your in love with him or anything, that'll defiantly get him running away. You need to just tell him already that your gay or slow into it with you think you might be gay. If the guy has any interest in you at all, he will probably let you know. If he is straight, he'll also let you know. I really don't see what the problem is. It's not like you can make him one over the other or anything. Whether he is straight/bi/gay is completely up to him and only he will be able to decide. It sounds really selfish the way you keep asking how you can get him.

you I had still have , a crash on a straight guy , that I thought he was only straight , but when I confessed my love to him (Long Fairy tale , don't ask ) he french kissed me , you know what sangrampp , just go for it , and you who reading this comment , it's a life time experience , I mean we guys are sexualy , than we are emotional , go for it , turn him to a gay guy , trust me if he like Laying with you , he'l curtenly love you = watch the movie = the ugly truth !

Check dates before posting-this one is from 2007.. :-)

I had the same situation. And I t ended terriblely. My friend I loved, well he decided to cut all contact. The sad thing is that he IS gay (closet). He denies his true feelings and denies his lust and denies himself joy. He adopts beliefs and styles to emulate he is straight. Currently he is with the navy and strongly adopts southern baptist religion. His roommates and brother all think he's gay but can't prove it and he's nearly given himself away.

Mean while, I've almost completely forgot him. Now a days I chase this new boy ;3 . He's maybe gay maybe not. I've rubbed him (not there pervert) and we've talked (out with him). But I did the same with above guy for years and when I finally tell him everything (came out to him), he cuts contact.

Not going to lie I still love the first guy and wish there was some way to be friends or something. And I get this way because I loved him too much and bring him up every now and then. When it happens I remember the 7 years of love and how he saved my life a few times. I miss rob platt, but I know I can't be with or have him.

For you internet jerks who want to reply to this cruelly, go for it. I won't read it and nobody cares about your life.