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  • Feb 20, 2013, 11:36 AM
    JudyKayTee
    If the rules in Canadian strip clubs are still the same - and I never understood this - when I have worked in Ontario (and strippers actually do witness accidents and get hurt and need to have their statements taken - dancers would strip to their skin but the clubs were not allowed to show videos which were pornographic. In the US (in my State) strippers must wear pasties and some sort of bottom but the club shows porno.

    So - there would be the naked stripper and the TV would be this side of Lassie.
  • Feb 20, 2013, 11:38 AM
    Oliver2011
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Is the offer open to everyone? I'm in Orlando on March 4th.

    But of course. We actually live about 10 minutes from the airport. Are you doing the Disney thing?

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by 662418082010 View Post
    OK, now I really want to go to Orlando!!!LOL

    I wish you the best.
  • Feb 20, 2013, 11:42 AM
    JudyKayTee
    No, I'm spending about 7 days in Florida (starting with Daytona), driving around, taking a cruise out of Lauderdale.

    I have lots of family and friends I'm looking forward to seeing - and bike week!
  • Feb 20, 2013, 11:55 AM
    Oliver2011
    Adam and I were going to go to Ormond but Bike Week - UGH! Too crowded.

    Recommend Aunt Catfish's - It's south of Daytona but awesome food.
  • Feb 20, 2013, 11:56 AM
    talaniman
    This is but the latest manifestation of your deep rooted insecurity, and fear, that has been overwhelming you for almost a year. I think this sums it up best

    Ask Me Help Desk - View Single Post - How do I stop being Jealous in order to save my relationship!

    And you have never addressed the big secret you have been holding inside you

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/bankru...ed-659093.html

    Hard to have courage through honesty when you are afraid of what others may do, say, or think. That undermines your true nature, and weakens your confidence through shame and regrets, and guilt that you put on yourself.

    Forgive yourself the mistakes of the past, and move forward without the fear of what others do, or think. Especially the successful no drama guy you have hooked onto. If he cannot love your true self, flaws and all, I fail to see the point of how this is healthy for you.

    A healthy relationship requires two healthy partners that have complete truth to have complete trust.
  • Feb 20, 2013, 11:57 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quick highjack - do you and Adam ride motorcycles?

    Truly great response - I didn't see the old threads.

    I thought the time frame for common law was more than a year in Canada - ? Common law in British Columbia is 2 years; Nova Scotia, also 2 years; New Brunswick, 3 years; Alberta, 3 years with exceptions.
  • Feb 20, 2013, 12:10 PM
    Oliver2011
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Quick highjack - do you and Adam ride motorcycles?

    Truly great response - I didn't see the old threads.

    I thought the time frame for common law was more than a year in Canada - ?

    Adam has a Ducati (sp?). It's called a Monster. I want him to sell it because I want to him to grow old.
  • Feb 20, 2013, 12:12 PM
    JudyKayTee
    I'm an accident investigator and should know better, but I own a Goldwing, usually rent a HD in Florida, and I ride!
  • Feb 20, 2013, 12:14 PM
    Oliver2011
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    I'm an accident investigator and should know better, but I own a Goldwing, usually rent a HD in Florida, and I ride!

    I hate it. He knows I hate it. He doesn't ride it much anymore because of that.
  • Feb 20, 2013, 12:16 PM
    JudyKayTee
    So - what's he doing during bike week? <smirk>
  • Feb 20, 2013, 12:22 PM
    Oliver2011
    Staying HOME!! :)

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