Originally Posted by
J_9
Not only do you not care what it will do to your job, but you don't care what this will do to his relationship or his children.
If this continues, you will effectively become a homewrecker. This is a man who has a wife AND children. With you leading him on like this you risk your job and he risks losing his family.
Don't you have any morals? This isn't any different than "the other woman" scenario aside from the fact that he is your subordinate and you are his superior. So, effectively you are risking not only your position in your employment, but you are risking his as well. When you risk his, you are risking putting food in the mouths of his children.
Not only what you are doing is unethical, it is immoral as well. Get a grip on your emotions and realize what damage you are doing to this man's family. His wife. His children.