It is a very helpless feeling but you have to keep telling yourself you're doing the right thing-- not just for him but for you as well. Trust he is in good hands because he's being proactive about his circumstances. You can and will fight through this! :)

I really hope so!!

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Originally Posted by souls007

Thank you - you have been so helpful.

That is a good idea as it is killing not too. Its difficult when someone you love is hurting and the only thing you can do is nothing

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Being good to yourself is a great idea.