Here's the thing. If you don't stand your ground, tell her that you don't appreciate being accused of something when you didn't do anything, what will happen? You'll be her toy. Every time she gets upset you'll crawl on your knees begging for forgiveness when you did nothing wrong. That's not a relationship. You'll be miserable, and you'll end up breaking it off.Quote:
Originally Posted by ray ray12
If you want to build something with her, than you have to build on trust, honesty, and communicating with her. That means that you have just as much right as she does to tell her when you're mad. And you have every right to be mad if you're being accused of something you didn't do.
Is it okay for her to do what she did, when you didn't do anything? She had no problem getting mad at you and risking the relationship. So why can't you speak your mind, and not play games like she is? At least you're being honest.
If you text her, tell her to stop playing games and tell you what you supposedly did wrong, and she gets mad, than turn the tables on her. Tell her that she's the one that started this, that you're not apologizing for something you didn't do, and if she's not willing to tell you why she's mad, than there's nothing more to talk about, because you don't want a relationship with someone that lies, tries to make you feel bad when you didn't do anything, and then gets defensive when you don't bow down to her demands. She either wants a boyfriend or a submissive servant that bows to her every demand and bad mood. She has to choose, and she has to grow up.
