Ok, I understand a little bit more now what you're saying. Still, she doesn't need to know as they were broken up at the time that it happened.

Forget the guilt guy. You were hurt and wanted to feel better but you learned a valuable lesson that meaningless sex doesn't repair a broken heart. So since you didn't cheat, nor betray her love since she has none for you then stop sitting on the pity pot, and get about the healing process.

Yes it sucks to get dumped and hurts like hell, but life has to go on and crying is allowed. We have all felt that way and over time it gets better. So plan your time with family and friends and enjoy their support when you are done crying. Sooner rather than later but its up to you when you are ready.

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Originally Posted by abadmixture

I just need to hear her say it to my face. She has not said it yet and I need to hear it otherwise I am afraid I will always cling to this relationship.

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You are going to push her away more if you keep questioning her feelings. It will work out you just got to handle it like a man and she will prob come back and make up sex is the best but do u want that girl to be happy? Sounds like you are both still learning about healthy relationships. And she needs to be able to explain herself better. But it will work out bud run, exercise, and keep yourself busy and focused on the positive things in your life until things get clear. That's the best you can do honestly.

I am concentrating on making myself better. There are very few things in our relationship that I regret, and she told me time and time again how important I was to her and how she never felt this way about anyone and how she needed me more than I knew etc etc.

In two months her sister's wedding is happening. I actually got a message from her sister yesterday saying how she is sorry for what happened and how much she loved us together. She said what's meant to be, will be. She then said not to forget about us (the family) and that she would still like for me to come to the wedding. I plan on going even if its just for the ceremony. I was really close with her family and want to show my support.

I think that's a lousy idea and decretion would be a better course of action. Stay away from family events of exes.