How old are you?
I don't think at your age you need to label yourself because you have had one relationship with another boy.
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...me-690977.html
You have become totally obsessed with this relationship. I think you need to give yourself some time before you start labeling yourself. You went way overboard with this boy, don't go overboard with this too.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

How old are you?
I don't think at your age you need to label yourself because you have had one relationship with another boy.
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...me-690977.html
You have become totally obsessed with this relationship. I think you need to give yourself some time before you start labeling yourself. You went way overboard with this boy, don't go overboard with this too.

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No, it's the same guy which I mentioned before!. what I feel is really strange!. when I try to forget this relationship, in 2-3 days, without contacting him, I feel a bit okay, but then when he talk to me, this love comes again!. and this feeling makes me want to scream loud and tell everyone who I am! And I don't matter what others think!.

Love does not come and go like that. You are infatuated.
I'm just saying don't label yourself because you have a super crush on a guy. This is not uncommon at this age and it does not necessarily mean you are gay.
Give yourself some time before you broadcast to the world.

After 3 weeks you know you love him? And he proposed to you? Come on.

You're messing with us, aren't you?

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Originally Posted by odinn7

After 3 weeks you know you love him? And he proposed to you? Come on.

You're messing with us, aren't you?

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I'm sure of what I'm saying!. I'ts not the first time that I'm in love and I'm sure I love him!.

Believe me, you are young and infatuated. I'm not messing with you. Your behavior proves my point.
You do not fall desperately in love with some one after 3 weeks but you can be desperately infatuated with the first guy in your life at 16. He proposed to you? How old is he?
I was proposed to a lot of times by boys when I was in high school, Didn't marry either one and could not even tell you what their name is, they probably don't remember mine either. They were on to someone else the next month.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Believe me, you are young and infatuated. I'm not messing with you. Your behavior proves my point.
You do not fall desperately in love with some one after 3 weeks but you can be desperately infatuated with the first guy in your life at 16. He proposed to you? How old is he?
I was proposed to a lot of times by boys when I was in high school, Didn't marry either one and could not even tell you what their name is, they probably don't remember mine either. They were on to someone else the next month.

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Yeah he proposed and he is 16 also..

You guys are young. Don't take all of this too seriously. Your teen years are for having fun, discovering who you are. Don't tie yourself down to a person or to labels.

I am gay and I just found out that my boyfriend is bisexual. I thought at first that he was gay but in fact he is bisexual. When he told me that, I was shocked and started to feel scared (maybe he can be attracted by a girl). I love him very much and when I told him that I was scared, he told me to trust him. He is a guy who is surrounded by lots of girls and now I have that great fear!. what should I do?. trust him?. is there possibly a way to know if he will not go out with a girl?.

He could just as easily stray with other men if he wanted to - right?
If you trust his feelings for you, you are being worried without any cause.

I feel for you guy, as this whole thread has been about you being overwhelmed by your feelings and wanting to do something about them. Do nothing without thought or some really careful considerations so you can stop scaring yourself, and enjoy this new relationship.

Be cool, calm, and collected and in control of yourself or you will freak everyone out, yourself and the new guy included. Be mature about this, you're 16 not 6. Learn to think with your head and not just your feelings, before you act or speak... especially to your parents and friends.

While honesty is best, I don't think it's the best time to tell any one your personal business. Or deepest thoughts.

SETTLE DOWN!!

You need to calm down, chill. You have been all over the place with your feelings about this boy.
Take it easy. Step back and think this through. First this guy was in love with you, proposed to you, now you find out he likes girls too. Step back from this relationship so you can begin to think clearly.

Have the two of you even met face to face yet or is this strictly an nonlinear relationship?

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Have the two of you even met face to face yet or is this strictly an nonlinear relationship?

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Yeah!. we have even met face to face!. several times!

Hi everyOne... im gay and I just got to know a guy some days ago on Facebook and we even met.
Since that day, he started texting me on mobile and we used to talk a lot..
During opur first meeting, he told me about his past lives and told me that he likes having fun with guys. I asked him if he had ever had a love relationship and he told me that every time that he felt that it was turning to love, he stopped it... and for that I don't know why..
That day we texted a lot and we met two days later again... then two days consecutive..
During the second day, he gave me such a passionated kiss that I was mesmerized..
I love it.. I started dreaming about him and I think I'm in love with him...
When I don't text him, he keeps on sending messages to ask me what I am doing and all..
When I drive along with him in his van, he holds my hand and kiss me on and that makes me really happy..
Now the thing is that I love him and I don't even know if we are out together or not..
Yesterday I texted him and I told him that I love him and I want to get out with him but he just replied "haha" and told me to go to sleep.. and he said he likes me..
What does he mean?. help me please.. thanks

I guess he is not looking for a relationship but yes someone to have fun with...

Is this a different guy than before? Whatever happened with that?

You had better learn to get to know someone before you fall in love and the fact you fall so easily is an indication you have very little self control and cannot properly protect yourself from being hurt.

You fall in love after a few days? What happened to the other guy?
This guy is saying he likes you and that's it. You are probably bothering him. You need to stop opening yourself to people so fast. Get to know people. Stop looking for someone to love and love yourself

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Is this a different guy than before? Whatever happened with that?

You had better learn to get to know someone before you fall in love and the fact you fall so easily is an indication you have very little self control and cannot properly protect yourself from being hurt.

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Okay.. so what can I do about myself?.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

You fall in love after a few days? What happened to the other guy?
This guy is saying he likes you and that's it. You are probably bothering him. You need to stop opening yourself to people so fast. Get to know people. Stop looking for someone to love and love yourself

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To the other guy, I have successfully followed yOur advice and I have been convinced by everyone I asked that he don't love me.. he just call me whenever hee wants.. sometimes after a week or two.And seeing his ignoring attitude made me stronger enough to forget him a little.
Thanks for this answer. But bothering him I don't think so because I did the same as you told me before, wait for him or let him breathe... and whenever I don't say anything, he calls me or text me asking again and again what I am doing and all and that also EVERYDAY!.

Ignore the first guy, and pay attention and see what the new guy is up to before you get all in love. Never assume others feel the same way you do, and have fun while you protect yourself and find out what's on his mind.