How will hurting her help you? The only person you'll really be hurting is yourself. Get over it, move on, and leave her alone. She can't help that she's no longer in love with you, and getting even won't do a thing to change that.

I have to say, the more I read your posts the less attractive you become.

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Originally Posted by Caspi

What perspective?

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The perspective of vanity most common among the young.. where what's outside matters more than what's inside.

Sounds more like a little boy than a man. A man would be happy they got out of a situation like this before they would be paying alimony and/or child support... a boy feels the need to get even..

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Originally Posted by Alty

I have to say, the more I read your posts the less attractive you become.

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Good lord...

Yes, may I assume you are teens, it sounds that way.

Really hurt her? Find someone new after a while and be really happy. Don't ever contact her again, and show her that you did not need her.

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Originally Posted by smoothy

Good lord..............

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Have to agree - ugly goes to the bone.

I'm still laughing about his shoe size being part of his measurements.

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No person is ugly. Every person is whole, perfect and complete. Just be yourself. You are beautiful, attractive and tempting, as everyone is. There are blinds, limps and even deafs-dumbs, who have takers. Just be confident. You must consult some psychologist if you lack it. Motivate yourself.

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Whoa - you've just managed to insult entire groups of people. "Blinds, limps and EVEN deafs-dumbs... have takers?"

Good news for handicapped people everywhere, particularly the "limps."

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Whoa - you've just managed to insult entire groups of people. "Blinds, limps and EVEN deafs-dumbs ... have takers?"

Good news for handicapped people everywhere, particularly the "limps."

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I guess they were speaking on behalf of their own group... the simpletons.

- cutting right to the chase! Love it.

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so my ex dumpped me over email after we went out for 3 years and she said that i was the one and that she wanted to marry me blah blah blah. any tips to make this break up the hardest on her than ever because it hurt me so much. oh by the way she started dating a guy that i told her was chasing her for 2 years.

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Revenge is ugly - and makes you an ugly person.

Good Grief! The more I read here the more I wonder if we're being trolled. Honestly.

If you're looking for advice then move on. I do realize we all have our moments of weakness, I have looked up exes on Facebook too, but for the love of Pete let it go! On again/off again will always be that.

As for looks. All in the eyes of the beholder. Just be confident. That will be far more attractive than a six pack and a spray on tan. You seem the sort for sporting a spray on tan.

Chill out. Really. You will find someone, or someone will find you. You will scare a good number of people away with what you're doing now. The people you will get will probably be more of the same.

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Good Grief! The more I read here the more I wonder if we're being trolled. Honestly.

If you're looking for advice then move on. I do realize we all have our moments of weakness, I have looked up exes on facebook too, but for the love of Pete let it go! On again/off again will always be that.

As for looks. All in the eyes of the beholder. Just be confident. That will be far more attractive than a six pack and a spray on tan. You seem the sort for sporting a spray on tan.

Chill out. Really. You will find someone, or someone will find you. You will scare a good number of people away with what you're doing now. The people you will get will probably be more of the same.

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- Don't mince words. Tell us what you REALLY think! Best post of the day.

Personally... I think the OP really needs to consider taking an oath of lifetime celibacy... or cut his own boy parts off.

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The perspective of vanity most common amoung the young..where whats outside matters more than whats inside.

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I think you may have misunderstood my comment. I was simply disagreeing with the assessment that he is vain. One would have to be insecure to be continually seeking affirmation from strangers.

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I think you may have misunderstood my comment. I was simply disagreeing with the assessment that he is vain. One would have to be insecure to be continually seeking affirmation from strangers.

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I can accept that clarification... Thanks for giving it.