A set back in getting over my ex
Okay so I have posted on here before about how I was having trouble getting over my ex girlfriend of four years, its been about five months now since we broke up, Basically everything was great for awhile there I was getting everything back to normal I was exercising, hanging out with my buddies, working. All this was going great for me until I went out last night with my some friends of mine who just so happen to hang out with my ex sometimes, One of them made the mistake of telling me that she was now officially dating someone new (the guy she broke up with me for) finally. Im not sure why but the second I heard this it just tore my heart out.
The thing is I knew its was going to happen at some point and I knew it would be with this guy but I suppose it's the reliaztion of her being with someone new that bothers me so much, and when I think about it I get such a mixture of emotions I feel so sad but at the same time just incredibly angry.
Now at the same time I at least have my friends support who know I want no contact with her so they told straight out that they wouldent invite her out if I was going and vice versa. Which is good because that will make healing over this hump a little easier but I know anytime I see the her and her new boyfriend together It going to set me back every time.
The funny thing is that she wasent even the best girlfriend in the world to me at least just because she was so bossey and demanding and always had to have things her way but that doesent change the fact that I loved her and even though I do not want to out with her again at the same time I just cannot stand seeing her with anyone else, and knowing that she is happy with someone else.
So if anyone has some advice or persoanl storys that could help me through this rough patch I would really appreciate it.
Thanks for reading.