The problem is not her or what she is doing or saying, the problem is how you are handling yourself and your own feelings. Its you who are playing mind games with yourself trying to get what you cannot have.

You ae still so focused on getting her back that you cannot see that you are thourally deluding yourself, and obviously not thinking with your brain. If you were you would have given up, and not be a part of this drama.

She is not yours, never was, and she is doing what she pleases, but you just cannot let go and learn. What's it going to take to get you off this crazy path that I am positive even your own good friends have tried to talk you off?

I mean, why learn this humiliating lesson in rejection the really hard way?

Monday night we ha to do a huge assignment for school Si I went over and we were o the couch I put the computer down and she started tickling me so I did it back ten we started making out and she said she missed me but she's not ready to date, and we were at party last night and she kissed me half drunk and we slept in the same tent an I wa trying to sleep and we hooked up, I kept asking if she was sober and she said yes I was drunk to and didn't think it through but the next morning I drove her home and she wouldn't even hug me bye.. But she says she thinks she likes me. And were talking tonight so what do I aske her? What went wrong how we could work?

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Monday night we ha to do a huge assignment for school Si I went over and we were o the couch I put the computer down and she started tickling me so I did it back ten we started making out and she said she missed me but she's not ready to date, and we were at party last night and she kissed me half drunk and we slept in the same tent an I wa trying to sleep and we hooked up, I kept asking if she was sober and she said yes I was drunk to and didn't think it through but the next morning I drove her home and she wouldn't even hug me bye.. But she says she thinks she likes me. And were talking tonight so what do I aske her? What went wrong how we could work?

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Amazing how many people have drunk/intoxicated sex.

Anyway - I have no idea what went wrong.

Ask her if she's interested in dating you. Presumably she knows and has made up her mind.

"I think I like" you would not be good enough for me, by the way.

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Amazing how many people have drunk/intoxicated sex.

Anyway - I have no idea what went wrong.




Ask her if she's interested in dating you. Presumably she knows and has made up her mind.

"I think I like" you would not be good enough for me, by the way.

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And she said she does like me but is scared of things going back I how they were (me not listening, beig too clingy, and freaking all the time) I told her I'm working o them and she says she can see us dating again but not right now. So I have no idea.

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And she said she does like me but is scared of things going back I how they were (me not listening, beig too clingy, and freaking all the time) I told her I'm working o them and she says she can see us dating again but not right now. So I have no idea.

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I'd believe her - stay in touch, PROVE that you've changed, see if she is interested in dating you.

She says she wants to work things out after the summer she said she wanted space so I only texted her if she texted me. I was at a party last night and said to her I've been drinking I don't want to do anything that'd up what we have because we kiss and stuff when we hangout. So she got all mad at me deleted me on bbm so I texted her when she said just off I'm done I don't want to date you ever so jut stop texting me. What do I do to make her want me back if she's so angry. It seems like she likes me when we hangout but she always brings me really close then does stuff like this. So what should I do to get her back. I know you guys will say try to get over her she's not worth it. I tried that and realized she is worth it so what are some things I can do to change her mind

Forget changing her mind. She's playing with your mind. Forget about her, don't invest any more time in her, move on and save yourself.

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Forget changing her mind. She's playing with your mind. Forget about her, don't invest any more time in her, move on and save yourself.

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Vi tried moving on it didn't work.

I tried getting over her I just can't do it. Do you think nc will get her to want me back? If so how long.. What do I do if she texts me. I know everyone's going to say to get over her but I just can't so can you please help me on what to do to get her back please.

Your threads have been merged so the whole story is in one place

Makes me sad to see a guy played like a fiddle.

Just ignore her, what she is doing is none of your concern.

Never let them see you sweat - and you pretty much can't "make" anyone do anything.