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  • Mar 22, 2012, 08:54 PM
    Wondergirl
    Like Dr. Phil would say, let me know in a week how this is working for you.
  • Mar 22, 2012, 08:55 PM
    xoxocjc
    Lol okay
  • Mar 22, 2012, 08:59 PM
    Wondergirl
    I'll be here waiting. ;)
  • Mar 22, 2012, 09:00 PM
    xoxocjc
    Lol alrighty then.
  • Mar 22, 2012, 09:17 PM
    Wondergirl
    Don't forget! I'll be checking my watch. Thursday. March 29th. 11 p.m. CDT. I'll bring the snacks and soda. Hope you like cheese popcorn. It's smothered in cheddar cheese and hull-less, so little hulls don't get caught between your teeth and drive you crazy. I can have chocolate candy here too--you name the brand you like.
  • Mar 22, 2012, 09:49 PM
    xoxocjc
    You're weird.
  • Mar 22, 2012, 10:12 PM
    Wondergirl
    (Hmmm, that's what my kids tell me too.) Actually, I'm not--just trying to make this fun for you. ;)
  • Mar 23, 2012, 12:05 AM
    dove527
    My boyfriend gets mad at me if l confront him about something l have caught him out about. You deserve so much better and you will find it hard to trust him again if you ever can. Lf he won't discuss this with you then he isn't worth it. Maybe you should try to have a chat without getting angry with other if he truly cares he will listen but if not he is not willing to listen or change he isn't worth staying with goodluck.
  • Mar 23, 2012, 10:02 AM
    Aquachx
    Wondergirl is right. I've been in a position like this. He is using you. Treating you like a doormat. The best thing you can do for yourself is to stop contact with him for a while. Calm yourself down and start to think logical instead of with your emotions. You feel like you want him now because your heart is in it. Hes keeping you around because he knows he can have you whenever he wants. Once someone else really comes along you won't be in the picture anymore. Give you both some space for about 3 weeks. Keep yourself busy and see of he's who you really want. Make him miss you. If he really loves you he will get scared about losing you. If he don't come back then you know the relationship would have never been a goos one.

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