Will she continue cheating for life or finally fix her ways.
What happens when she cheats and goes off with the other guy. She cheated earlier in the relationship and in her previous marriage. I have heard once a cheater always a cheater. I think that she will do it in her next relationship and he will suspect something because of how he got her.
Half of me wants to see her fail. The other half wants to see her fix her life and find happiness with someone. In the end I am more for her finding what true love is where cheating never comes in her head.
I know I should not think about these things. Its like everything else. Ealy stages you think too much. Does anyone know what happen with there ex's. I will find my own happiness but I also would like to find her own.
After a breakup how to deal with mutual friends.
I am curious now that we are over, should I keep in contact with any friends. There is three types of friends.
1. Friends that she knew first and I am friends with them and more so with spouses.
2. Friends we both met at the same time.
3. people we know through church, baseball etc.
I don't attend the same church ( she is united and I'm catholic) but we did take turns visiting each other churches. I even volunteer for many fundraisers as does she.
I joined another baseball league but still run into people we know.
So do I cut them all off. How do I decide.
What do I say if ask about the breakup. Some people ask what happened.
I know know that she has lied about who cheated in her last relationship and she said to people it was him.( a lie)
What to do with pictures of ex familly.
I digital pictures of my ex family some of them are b-day of kids, newborn shots and of her parents. Her mom past away last year. I am told no contact with her. However I told her a few weeks ago during the breakup that I would bring it to her or email it. This might start contact with her.
Should I send it to her brother and ask him to put it on disc and give it to her. She only has computer access at work and might be restricted on what she can open by the system. I took my computer with me so there is no access at home.
Should I keep copies for myself or should I also cut this out of my life.
How can telling the ex's new b/f what he is in for bad.
I want to know how telling this new guy what he is in for with my ex. He is the one who has been cheating with her knowing that I existed and would call her cell phone and avoid the home phone. He promised many things to her and told her to leave me to go out with him.I know she is to blame to allow this to go on and finally falling for him. I have been in an argument with him over the phone when he called her cell phone to talk with her. He said that she should be with him. I more or less want to just tell him about her past and other things that he does not know about. It might make him think twice at best it might only cause some arguments between them much like he did do my relationship.
It will make me feel better at least in the short term. I can't see things making me feel worse then her cheating and saying she is not in love with me.
I know you say that this will hurt me but I can't see how.