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  • Jan 8, 2012, 11:50 PM
    DownandOut25
    Facebook dilemna
    Privacy & social networking

    I have been in a relationship for 5 years and me and my boyfriend both love each other very much but there's a problem... I wants to tell my boyfriend that I've been on his FACEBOOK page, but afraid to tell him, and don't know what the consequences are or what will happen!


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  • Jan 11, 2012, 11:53 AM
    DownandOut25
    Clubbing and bumping and grinding
    Last Friday was me and my boyfriend's 5 year anniversary and I'm happy we are still together after all we been through and I'm happy I feel lucky that I have a great man!

    Late last night/early this morning we had an argument and what really pissed me off is when I told him when you go to the club I don't want girls bumping and grinding on you, feeling on you touching you, and I wasn't happy! Then he asked me when I go clubbing that I am dancing on other guys, and I told him no, I don't I don't do that!

    Then he says he's going to do whatever the f**k he wants and he's not respecting my wishes when I say I don't want no women dancing on my boyfriend, even though we live in different cities and, we manage to keep this relationship together for so long!

    I'm so upset and p***ed off they he would say that and right now, I don't even know what to do, and I'm angry, mad, upset. What should I do ?
  • Jan 11, 2012, 02:48 PM
    talaniman
    Your relationship is going down hill, and getting worse. 5 years is a long time, but is this really a happy healthy relationship? Now its long distance, and getting worse not better.

    Time to rethink things because nowhere in anything you have ever written is this a healthy loving relationship. And nether of you knows what to do, so take a break why don't you, since you can argue, but not talk.

    Clearly invading his privacy, and making all kinds of demands that he doesn't agree with, is an example of how fast things are going down hill despite your pie in the sky claims of how great things are.

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