Here's what you do: tell him "so long, sweetheart" and run away and don't look back. He's verbally and emotionally abusive. I wonder how much farther away physical abuse is? Think about it long and hard.

I'm sorry but your BF maybe toxic! Ok think about how tall he is and(if you know) how much he ways... now who ways more and is he more petite than you? It might make him uncomfortable to nott be able to be the big strong man defending the little damsel in distress... It's corny but it seems to boost men's self-esteem. I believe when you say you're not fat! It might just be that your BF is hanging with the wrong crowd! Oh, and if I were you and he was treating me like that I would have dumped his sorry butt a long time ago and gotten myself somebody I can enjoy myself with!