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I like your answer I wish I would feel like leaving...

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Everyone knows my history here as I told you. I didn't take your advises and called him. He is acting normally like nothing has happened as we discussed it before and we said that if we brake up again we will never get back together again. Do you think he doesn't want to loose me and that's why maybe he talks normally. Tomorrow is the day he has to go to a party where a girl invited him at her job's party saying that he is a good client. If I find out he went with another girl should I leave him for good. I am not going to call him anymore and if he calls what to talk about . I opened up the issue and asked him to go out tonight and received the same answer as last night 'no'.
Tell me what to say if he calls me as when we've talked today he asked me what I did during the all day.
I promise I won't bother anymore with this topic as I think the next time I ask a question it will be anything about break up.

Threads have been merged again, and why keep making questions about the same thing over and over again?? PUH-LEEESE stop it.

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tell me what to say if he calls me

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DON'T ANSWER, this is fruitless, and a complete waste of time. Let him get his virgin and tell him to leave you alone.

HARSHNESS WARNING--THIS IS GOING TO BE BLUNT AND HARSH!!!!
But please stop and think.

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He stopped going out in clubs with me, or having coffee somewhere where there are people that know us so we see each other only in the hotels rooms and sleep over.

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This is what this man thinks of you.

You aren't a girlfriend. You are a toy to be used when he desires. You are a possession.

I would almost bet that you are the only person who thinks he has been seeing you since the clandestine meetings began. I think he is finding a bride and playing with you when it suits him.

You haven't been good enough to marry and now you aren't even good enough to be seen in public with him. Is that really the type of relationship you want? Do you value yourself so little that you allow yourself to be used for his gratification and nothing else?

If I were with you right now, I would hold up a mirror and ask you if the woman looking back at you deserved to be treated the way you are being treated by this man. What did she do to be used and tossed aside? Why are you allowing it to happen?

If I could, I would tell this male what I think of him and his beliefs making certain he never even thought about you again without feeling ashamed of himself, but I can't. I can try to convince you that you are worth so much more than what you are getting, but it doesn't matter what I say if you don't believe it inside yourself.

If you value yourself, let him go. Don't be there if he calls. Go out and live your life.

Find yourself respect and leave this in the past.

This guy's used you-you deserve so much better.

Go no contact and move on-you know you can.

Its better for you to leave him at the right moment.